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Ok im a newbie, yet thanks to the trools on this site, im already being dns'd by the lively ladies here, im sick and tired of the assumptions of who i am, i want concrete proof of your assumptions otherwise, STOP THE BS PLEASE!!!!!!! PROVE IT, PUT UP OR SHUT UP!!!!!! Id like to see ladies yet im already dead, and im dismayed by this

Ok im a newbie, yet thanks to the trools on this site, im already being dns'd by the lively ladies here, im sick and tired of the assumptions of who i am, i want concrete proof of your assumptions otherwise, STOP THE BS PLEASE!!!!!!! PROVE IT, PUT UP OR SHUT UP!!!!!! Id like to see ladies yet im already dead, and im dismayed by this Originally Posted by yankees927

Yeah I am sure that nothing you did had anything to do with this happening.

I'll be a bit more direct than dd was:

yankees, you did it to yourself.

Ok im a newbie, yet thanks to the trools on this site, im already being dns'd by the lively ladies here, im sick and tired of the assumptions of who i am, i want concrete proof of your assumptions otherwise, STOP THE BS PLEASE!!!!!!! PROVE IT, PUT UP OR SHUT UP!!!!!! Id like to see ladies yet im already dead, and im dismayed by this Originally Posted by yankees927

I would think the best way to clear yourself is not to take on the entire ECCIE universe. The damage may have already been done. Your bed has been made so you have to lay in it awhile. Patience would be a key virtue here. It was a cool thing you did to report "nurse Porky" to Bp but my second set of steps would be to take other confidence building measures first with the mods and then try some of the girls. Listen to what the other guys have been saying all along and if you do try to see someone be hypersensitive to the fact you have a lot of reputable people upset at how you got started. If you are a two handle or more guy, just come clean. Things always blow over but use common sense, calling people jerks, and not being nice to well known providers especially in public will not end well for you. Your posts seem to lack empathy and awareness of others and fairly or not, it has you coming off as a sociopath. Girls on this site who won't just take a dollar from anyone won't see sociopaths...I am just using common sense here. Best thing thing to do is to end this thread bc it has an adversarial look to it and mend fences if you are serious. If you blame everyone for your behavior you just look more and more like a sociopath. The advice is worth every bit you paid for it but I am not the first person telling you this. Stop the drama.

Can you do yourself a favor? Pull up all your posts and go through one at a time. Your profile is a perfect example on how a newbie shouldn't behave and should have been made a sticky profile (like a sticky thread).

Good luck for your future dates.

This is not drama, this is me trying to be an active member and everyone telling me i am who i am not is not helping, too bad no one here(gals) will ever give me a chance so they can see who i am and see im the most respectful gentleman to any gal i would be able to see

I'll say this, you come across as someone who isn't all together and is extremely hostile. I can understand their reluctance. Our safety is #1 and you are not worth the risk.

I'm hoping you're just a running joke because it's gone too far and it ain't funny.

I don't know what you're like in RL but if anything you've done here is any indication, you seem to be a complete fuck up. You don't harass the ladies you want to see. You treat them with respect and allow them time to be comfortable with you. If not then simply move on to the next and repeat. Sooner or later you'll get yourself established if you haven't already. I don't know if you are just fucking around with us and if you are good fuck. But otherwise, just don't be a fuck up. I've said that before but apparently you love being fuck up too much to get some paid puss. I don't wanna know what puss you get outside of this or do I? Well whatever it isn't critical to the matter at hand.

Let us know how it all goes. I may be an asshole and very blunt but I don't lie.

The best thing to do when you find yourself in a hole is quit digging.

I would think the best way to clear yourself is not to take on the entire ECCIE universe. The damage may have already been done. Your bed has been made so you have to lay in it awhile. Patience would be a key virtue here. It was a cool thing you did to report "nurse Porky" to Bp but my second set of steps would be to take other confidence building measures first with the mods and then try some of the girls. Listen to what the other guys have been saying all along and if you do try to see someone be hypersensitive to the fact you have a lot of reputable people upset at how you got started. If you are a two handle or more guy, just come clean. Things always blow over but use common sense, calling people jerks, and not being nice to well known providers especially in public will not end well for you. Your posts seem to lack empathy and awareness of others and fairly or not, it has you coming off as a sociopath. Girls on this site who won't just take a dollar from anyone won't see sociopaths...I am just using common sense here. Best thing thing to do is to end this thread bc it has an adversarial look to it and mend fences if you are serious. If you blame everyone for your behavior you just look more and more like a sociopath. The advice is worth every bit you paid for it but I am not the first person telling you this. Stop the drama. Originally Posted by NASDAQ

Unfortunately he didn't report nurse becky, he reported the MOD who he thought made an inappropriate comment. Just another PSA on his part.

Unfortunately he didn't report nurse becky, he reported the MOD who he thought made an inappropriate comment. Just another PSA on his part. Originally Posted by dirty dog

Not much redeeming about him right now

This is not drama, this is me trying to be an active member and everyone telling me i am who i am not is not helping, too bad no one here(gals) will ever give me a chance so they can see who i am and see im the most respectful gentleman to any gal i would be able to see Originally Posted by yankees927

Ok I'll be even more direct.
How can you even think anyone, guys or gals, are going to believe your current statement "most respectful gentleman" when on the open board, you were not, to one of our local boards fav gals?

Unfortunately he didn't report nurse becky, he reported the MOD who he thought made an inappropriate comment. Just another PSA on his part. Originally Posted by dirty dog

There's been 4-5 in a relatively short time span that have had a hardon for fucking with the mods. Hmmm...

I started on this site about the same time as you. I am a windbag and a know it all, etc., etc., but I have manners and common sense. I have a tendency to be optimistic and see the best in people. I will do that and tend to give people second and third chances even when I shouldn't. In situations where my safety or that of others are not involved, successful second chances have really helped make a difference in a life or two. However, keep in mind Gema Fox's point, safety is involved so not getting a second chance is not personal per se but the risk of something bad is not worth it.
Dirty dog made the point to look at your profile and your post history(which the girls do use to form an initial opinion on you bc it's all they have to go on. Well, in doing what dirty dog has said, in a short time I see that 70 percent or more of the posts are putting people down or simply very aggressive(some even engaged to the providers). The negatives build on negatives as you attacked providers with the best reps on this board after they were friendly to you and you went after some of the valued poster guys here that make the foundation of the community. This isn't OK Cupid, eHarmony, or a dating site. You are not in competition with any of the guys so get your chip off your shoulder. In fact, without speaking for all, we are doing what can to keep and attract safe and generous guys to help keep the providers well to do and attract high quality travelers to town. Yes, there are trolls out there trolls an white knights that support their girls(there is a huge difference between the two) not sure there is a way forward unless you gain the trust of a valued poster or some reputable provider. I don't see that happening bc you made such a bad start(my momma says that being contrite without expectation of anything is a good start but it won't get you where you want). The only thing I can think right now of is find an agency and pay up. There are plenty of agency reviews to pick one or two to build a client rep with. You'll have to give up your privacy with them so they'll trust you but after a number of good reviews back to the agency, they might vouch for you. On the flip end, agencies can retaliate at bad behaviors (even the reputable ones) in ways that independent girls won't do... After a good rep with the agencies you may never need this site or anything else but they might vouch for you if you want to come back... Don't do a handle change but do yourself a favor and look at your posts. If you don't see the problems with most of them, leave this hobby for good, please...I am not a troll, maybe a little of a white knight at times but I don't know you dude...wish you the best.

There's been 4-5 in a relatively short time span that have had a hardon for fucking with the mods. Hmmm... Originally Posted by Enchanterlingum

Barking up the wrong tree bud. Best you get back to ignoring posts you don't agree with since that's what you seem to do best.

Nasdaq your post is way too long. Learn to use words to the fullest and economically. But thanks for giving a peek at your memoirs as it is unfolding.