Interested in honest opinions...
Do guys find the constant use of vulgarity in the hobby attractive? Words and phrases as nasty as possible to convey shock and garner as much attention as possible - turn on or turn off?
Perhaps I'm doing it wrong, but playful flirting and innuendos that leave something to the imagination seem to be a much better option. I realize that we are all here to do the same thing, but I think over-the-top nastiness comes across as a bit desperate, low-class & unintelligent.