FYL!

Notjodaddy's Avatar
I just posted a similar thread in the supposed "Mens Longe:"

It should come as no surprise that nothing that you say in this forum is private, Nothing that you say in this forum stays private. I said it twice on purpose.

I have been unjustly accused by a moderator, scoripio31, and vilified by others who have no knowledge .of me or my real world identify, but are allowed to vilify me by accusation and innuendo by virtue or their longer standing on this site.

If you have felt similar pressure as a newer member please respond to this post with your experience or comments
Id say your constitutional rights were violated and you need a good lawyer. Maybe one that deals in violation of your rights on the following.
1) your right to not have your online handle tarnished.
2) your right to see a hooker without providing recent references.
3) your right to anti villification
4) your right to misspell words and not be judged because of your so called "life" experiences and lack of education.
5) Your right to say something twice and on purpose so that we hear your cries of "hey im here is anyone listening?"
MarandaMarie's Avatar
This is the internet we're talking about, nothing is ever kept private. Don't act so young and naive as to not know that.

Are you here to make friends? No? Then why should any of their opinions of you matter? Personally, I love Scorpio but if you guys disagree about something, who cares? And what does it really matter that they dont like you or disagree with you? You aren't trying to bed them, are you?

If hobbying is what you're trying to do here, then don't do things to set off red flags for the ladies. Neither the hobbiest, nor moderators, are going to be the reason ladies won't see you, it'll be the drama you cause online that gets you on blacklists.

And don't take pity on yourself because you're new. Suck it up, buttercup. We all started in the same spot as you. We all had to prove we were real and could be trusted. If you have one review, and it sounds sketchy or fake, what are people suppose to think? If you know it's real then ignore them. They aren't your concern.
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This is the internet we're talking about, nothing is ever kept private. Don't act so young and naive as to not know that.

Are you here to make friends? No? Then why should any of their opinions of you matter? Personally, I love Scorpio but if you guys disagree about something, who cares? And what does it really matter that they dont like you or disagree with you? You aren't trying to bed them, are you?

If hobbying is what you're trying to do here, then don't do things to set off red flags for the ladies. Neither the hobbiest, nor moderators, are going to be the reason ladies won't see you, it'll be the drama you cause online that gets you on blacklists.

And don't take pity on yourself because you're new. Suck it up, buttercup. We all started in the same spot as you. We all had to prove we were real and could be trusted. If you have one review, and it sounds sketchy or fake, what are people suppose to think? If you know it's real then ignore them. They aren't your concern. Originally Posted by MarandaMarie

+100

IMO...your "presence online" behind your keyboard is what will be the cause of your struggles. Being a "newbie" is a seemingly conventional excuse for most who cause their own demise.
I have been unjustly accused by a moderator...and vilified by others... Originally Posted by Notjodaddy
The vilification may have been "gross negligence" by other members, but by no means was it done with "evil intent", so the FBI/DOJ says they're in the clear. Nothing more to see here, move on, son...
This is the internet we're talking about, nothing is ever kept private.
Don't act so young and naive as to not know that.
And don't take pity on yourself because you're new. Originally Posted by MarandaMarie
You can be assured that Njd ain't new, MarandaMarie...
Suck it up, buttercup. Originally Posted by MarandaMarie
LOL!!! I was gonna tell Njd to grow some balls, but I like MM's advice better...
MarandaMarie's Avatar
You can be assured that Njd ain't new, MarandaMarie... Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs
I got bored and read all his posts, I was doubtful that he was. But if I'm gonna be feisty today, it'll be in bed, not on this board.
But if I'm gonna be feisty today, it'll be in bed, not on this board. Originally Posted by MarandaMarie
Excellent decision, MM...
ElumEno's Avatar
OKAY.... now things are starting to make sense.

It seems that I've been gone so long that my radar has gone completely on the fritz!
Personally, I love Scorpio . Originally Posted by MarandaMarie

Well this is a new development...
WE are officially broken up now
MarandaMarie's Avatar
Well this is a new development...
WE are officially broken up now Originally Posted by BigDeal
WHAT? Can't I have you both? You know it is a huge fantasy of mine! ...If not, can we at least have break up sex?
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It seems that I've been gone so long that my radar has gone completely on the fritz! Originally Posted by ElumEno