Crazy bp bitch threatening to blacklist me?

stationmidget's Avatar
I contacted a girl on Backpage Dallas named Robin. She claims that she used to be on a key but got banned because she couldn't verify that she was 18. I was in route to go see her from Backpage and was trying to do some negotiating, and she got all pissed off and is now threatening to talk to some guy associated with you guys named Keith who supposedly can Blacklist me. Is that true? If so this is bullshit
NYr's Avatar
  • NYr
  • 07-17-2016, 09:35 PM
Not from a board perspective.

What folks do off the board we have no control and we are not the hobby police.
Chung Tran's Avatar
this Robin?

http://northeasttexas.backpage.com/F...treat/33633566

I do remember this one was here, for a short time.. the story she told you is horseshit.. I remember there was something about her I didn't like.
mrredcat43's Avatar
Why even call her if you don't have the donation? Cmon bro, you're better than this!
ManSlut's Avatar
Ok, think about it Dude - Robin can get 'Keith' to pull on his puppet's strings to blacklist your ass here but he can't do the same for her verification process? Seriously? And no one gets Blacklisted here, they get temporary 90 day bans for saying inappropriate/against the rules shit, that is all.

Keep on Hustlin'
needingmilking's Avatar
Why even call her if you don't have the donation? Cmon bro, you're better than this! Originally Posted by mrredcat43
Dude, you never wanted the pussy and not have the funds?

I did this shit too when I was very new to the hobby.

hey, wolverine, it happens. She cannot do anything dude, but you just burned that bridge. So stay away from here now. Her pimp can show up OR she might just give you the worst visit ever.

Next time why dont you pull out the claws? its less wimpy..

Live and learn.
mrredcat43's Avatar
I've never turned down a freebie, have got quite a few lately.
While there are some true and very real situations that get on a black list (provider robbed, gets beat up, ect.), I will bet most of the guys who are put on that list as well as alerts put out on are vendettas by jilted providers, who more than likely, have not even seen the hobbyist for a session or in person. They are not trying to warn other providers that he is dangerous, but do so in hopes other providers fall for her bullshit without question, limiting his choice of providers he would like to see.

Smart providers will go by the ladies who have actually seen the hobbyist for a session and base their decision on those SEVERAL ladies consistent opinions, not by a single provider who wants to advance her agenda.
needingmilking's Avatar
Damn this ceazy lady... just saw her. Dude you missed nothing. I will post review later
There are venues outside of ECCIE for providers to give each other a heads up about hagglers... even for an "unverified" BP ho.

FYI: haggling with a sex worker, especially at the last minute while on the way to an agreed upon date is more than uncouth. It poses a threat to her financial well being, even if minimally. And haggling is often times a precursor to other manifestations of boundary pushing such as coercive behavior. But I have a feeling you knew it was at least a little but shady and inappropriate which might be why you created the conditions where her hand was forced and she would either need to relinquish some of her donation and still see you. Or all of what she would be earning by not seeing you at all.

I've given up a few hundred dollars coming to me to assert my right to to not have to engage with jerks who think they can decide my worth for me and I would do it again. Y'all are playing games if you pretend to not know that haggling (like time wasting/fantasy booking and other devaluing and consumptive actions) does indeed fall on a spectrum of actions that sex workers warn each other about. If the shoe were on the other foot and and a provider tried to upsell and tack on X amount of money to the agreed upon donation while a client was minutes out from her in call, I'm sure there would be a full on roasting and scathing review in coed about how horrible and unprofessional she was...