Speaking only for myself as I'm one who dislikes someone tipping.
I would have to say: IF a man is going to give a lady something. I would much prefer it be a gift of any kind (no matter how simple it is).
As he took the time to put some thought into it. And thus it's special!
Whether it be a card, chocoates, wine, a candle. etc....
Those have more meaning. Because $ can be quickly spent....but the items a man gives, can be continuously enjoyed & looked at and further appreciated over time.
What would you consider as your best tip, money; or a gift of equal or better value?
Originally Posted by oden