Question for provides

I am still new to the hobby and I have a question I wonder if it is ok to ask if we can just talk and get to know each other some? I like to give massages it feels more intimate to me and that is what I enjoy and would rather daty more then anything else, I love to give pleasure. It is a turn on for me when I see you getting off and enjoying yourself. I always say the more pleasure I give the more I receive. Most of the time I can't get off if I don't feel some connection.
I guess that make me weird?

Thanks

There is no weird but you are going to have to pay for her time regardless, so don't be shy, have fun!

In my experience, you should have no trouble finding local ladies who fit your bill. When you contact them, it's always best to state preferences like this. Espeically if you talk with them on the phone for a bit, you can get a pretty good sense of who is easy to talk with, and who is not.

Also, be sure you schedule appropriate time, such as an hour. You can't expect her to conduct liesurely conversation in a short session.

I think I saw an advert for a DATY visit from one of the providers. (She offers the full menu too) Hmmm... DATY and talk... why not if it turns you on.
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There are plenty of ladies that are outgoing and will put you at ease in a heartbeat. And don't mind if you "just want to give them pleasure" LOL, they might be calling you by now. PM me if you want a reccomendation

Bob - I also need some sort of mental connection before anything else can really happen. True sensuality for me starts in my brain and not in my pants

Ammonite - I'd like your recommendations on ladies.

There are many providers here that are so sweet and will not at all have a hard time putting you at ease. I am sure many, including yours truly, would enjoy the pleasure of your company in more ways than one. I know some providers, even myself, who love to chat and just spend quality social time together with gentlemen. Even the specifics you mention would warrant, at least on my end and way of thinking, a lower donation because it wouldn't neccesarily be considered a full GFE experience with all that meaning entails. I would think that only to be fair from both ends. Search around and introduce yourself personally to those who might appeal to your taste, I am sure it will not be hard. There are so many beautiful, talented and intelligent ladies here.

Have fun, do your research, and always be safe!!! Happy Hobbying!

Kelli Ann Preston
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I totally agree kelliAnn. I think that getting to know one another makes it all worth while later!

actually - I have found early breakfast , a nice lunch or even a late night drive around the city ( @ sweetshane..) really helps to set the stage for whatever the two (or more) of you might have in mind..

yup yup denny.

My experience with the SA ladies is that many of them are happily willing to cater to your needs whatever they may be. I myself like to get down to business, but I enjoy the chit chat during foreplay.

Bob...I'm with you and enjoy that also....and..I've yet to find a girl that balked on the idea of someone paying her to let herself be pleasured....If I was a woman in the hobby that would be the line of work I'd choose...offer DATY only....pay me to have an orgasm.....lay back and let them munch away....

Look at it from another point of view...how many women do you know that are lining up to pay to give you a BBBJ? If there was a line of work like that I'd quit my day job and build a covered and air conditioned walk way from the street up to my front door so they would be comfortable waiting their turn...LOL

KelliAnn has said it best!! I love a bit of getting to know you...Before THE REALLY GETTING TO KNOW YOU!!