Wife wants to be a part time escort

Evening all, over the last couple of months my wife and I have been discussing the possibility of her becoming an escort. Our marriage is secure and sound, we aren't swingers but we have hosted a third party here and there on a number of occasions (male and female ). We don't necessarily need the extra income but wouldn't turn in down either. I enjoy watching her with other men and women, we've had a full swap experience and I was extremely turned on when she retold her evening with the other man. I suppose my question is, how does she get started, maintain her anonymity, and insure her safety. Curious to know if there are other married couples who's wives fit this scenario and the pros and cons of her in this line of work.

If you don't need the money, why not just do the swinger thing? Less risky, I would say.

She needs to create a separate account from you ECCIE using a different email address and most likely a different IP as well.

Take photos of her. Try to not have anything identifying in the background. For example, if you take shots of her in bed only have the sheets on there and try to not have other furniture or artwork in the background. Use a photo editor to blur her face....same with tattoos. You can also try cropping the image to only show the lower half of her face.

She then can post a thread in your city specific Welcome Wagon. Her first post should include pictures, menu, rates, and screening requirements.

When starting out it's best if she only see guys who have references. References are other established providers that will vouch that gentleman in question is safe. Make sure she asks the prospective clients for their contact info and a physical description so the other ladies can confirm it's the same man they enjoyed the company of previously. As a side note...if the provider does NOT have her phone number listed do not trust in the number a hobbyist provides. It might just be another phone the guy has to give himself a fake reference.

She should get either a burner phone or a VOIP number....don't publish it since this will be just a part-time gig for her it's best if she only hands out her number once the gent she is seeing has finished screening.

No matter what anyone tries to tell her BBFS (sex without a condom) is not something that "everyone does". While we are at it she doesn't have to put up with ANYTHING she doesn't want to. If a gent arrives and he makes her uncomfortable, smells and refuses to take a shower, or is under the influence and she fears that he'll start behaving dangerously she should lay the money on a surface closer to the door and tell that guy to leave and take his money with him.

There are MANY great, respectful, attentive clients out there. As long as she's game and keeps her head on straight she can have a great time.

Another thing, stay out of her business. Nothing will turn off clients faster than a guy running things. If this is really something she wants to do for herself, I would just come home, ask her if she had a good day, and that is the exact end of it all. Don't read reviews, don't look at the ML, deactivate your account. You may think you can handle it, but if you cant, you will only bring grief to your life and hers.

Best of luck.

You may think you can handle it, but if you cant, you will only bring grief to your life and hers. Originally Posted by Camille Fox

And that's the ultimate bottom line. You're both going to get a fever, and they likeky will not be complimentary.

I enjoy watching her with other men and women, we've had a full swap experience and I was extremely turned on when she retold her evening with the other man. Originally Posted by remy20001

That's the line that gives me hope ya'll might be fine. If you both are titillated by the idea of "slut wife turning tricks" great! Wait at home and let her tell you fun adventures she's had if she wants. I do agree with Camille that you should never look at the site again if she joins up.

I also warn you escorting is not just about sex...if she's worth her salt she'll start to pick up clients and appointments that have an emotional component as well. Yes it's work, but clients are not just a penis with a wallet attached.

Maybe you should have her reach out to GamerErin

She plays on the side and her husband knows about it. Don't think he is even on ECCIE.

She may be able to give advice,

SF

If you don't need the money, why not just do the swinger thing? Less risky, I would say. Originally Posted by FootLong

ditto...the risks can destroy your life & your marriage

this business can be scarey at times..............risks of being outed/raped/robbed/arrested/blackmailed.



now those are worse case scenerios but if things are going great with yall like it is now,then don't do it!

There are a number of ladies who are in ‘open’ relationships where the hubby is aware of the activities.
Not all of these work out.
This is a business with risks as well for her and for your relationship.
Guess you could put it this way,
Just because she’s a great cook doesn’t mean you should open a restaurant.

WTF hell no don't open up that box

What Milo says.....

I recommend taking her to Players once a week where you both can get your 'entertainment' fix, or let her go one her own as a Unicorn.

There were a couple of swinger clubs about 12 yrs or so ago, one on Evers another on Starlight Terrace, but that crowd may have moved on to somewhere else by now.

There have been providers that were married/committed that have had their relatiinships withstand the trials and tribulations of providership, but few last.

One of my absolute favorites was married and you never knew, because her husband never became noteworthy on the board, he held his ego in check. Eventually, she succumbed to the drama and faded into the RW.

Again, stick with swinging, her having date nights etc., rather than dive into this pond.

She needs to create a separate account from you ECCIE using a different email address and most likely a different IP as well. Originally Posted by SA Angel

Another thing, stay out of her business. Nothing will turn off clients faster than a guy running things. Originally Posted by Camille Fox

+1 to both of these things. The first thing that came to mind when I read your post was "hell no," as I dread that you'd be meddlesome.

Not that I object to a provider with a spouse/SO - most of them do, and have every right to have a normal life outside of the job (like anyone else) and it doesn't bother me that the SO knows what they're doing (probably better that way). But there needs to be a clear and distant separation of "work" and "private life."

If the SO handling their business (aka pimping them out), I would stay well away. Aside of the moral qualms, women who don't enjoy the work and are just doing it because their SO wants them to (for money or because it turns them on) generally turn in a poor performance.

That would be the lesser concern. The greater concern is that there are too many accounts of drama and even confrontations (I recall one review where the dude walked in on a session) - and since you've admitted it's a turn-on for you, I'd be suspicious that you'd be peeping or she'd be secretly recording the sessions for your viewing pleasure. If I discovered that, it would not end well.

So if she's into it, let her handle her own business and stay well away.

GamerErin...She plays on the side and her husband knows about it. Don't think he is even on ECCIE. She may be able to give advice, Originally Posted by SpursFan

He knows, and he is on ECCIE. But if they're making it work, I believe that they're the exception to the rule.

well I guess I am "the exception to the rule" also............
My SO and I have been in an open type relationship for over 30 years and it has worked out nicely! He loves what I do and is proud of me for who I am and how I "take care of my business".........he does know a few of my longtime regulars and has been to a few parties....I even hire him a gal once in awhile. for his entertainment....we were swingers back in our younger days till I got "outed" at a party in New Mexico...now we just attend a few clubs once in awhile.

He is never around when I entertain.........he does not run my business or interfere...he says that is my deal.....he is not my pimp,but rather my rock to lean on for encouragemnet & strength when i need it and my biggest fan!

Now I will add that what I said earlier I stand by..this business is not for any ordinary kinda couple........so proceed with caution...
I wish yall the best in whatever yall choose to do!