More times than not I am asked if I have a preference for what she wears for the appointment
Originally Posted by LordoftheRim
Wow. I've never had a woman ask me that. And I've only had one woman wear something I gave her to subsequent appointments -- she made sure to wear a short little black wrap I'd given her after our coupling was complete. One woman did wear some stuff in a photo shoot, but I never saw her personally in it.
A provider once told me she had three drawers full of lingerie. IIRC, that was in the context of gifts, and it was her way of telling me she didn't need any more intimate apparel. Maybe they get tired of it.
At any rate, I'm a sucker for lingerie, but I agree with the OP that it's pretty rare in the provider world.