question for veteran hobbiests

what in practice is the difference you have experienced in GFE and PSE?
In my exp. pse or porn star exp usually is little to no kissing and is less romantic I guess where as the girlfriend exp the provider usually kisses and some of the services are more personal. Also pse can involve video or pics depending on the provider. To me atleast in my exp pse is less personal and can be a little robotic. That's not to say that all pse providers are robotic that has just been my exp.
thanks good info. i see where some providers say no gfe. and some say no pse.
I've found that providers who advertise PSE are very vocal, love dirty talk, and generally try to replicate what we see in professional porn. Not my cup of tea, but it's fun every once in a while.

Providers who offer GFE will generally kiss, fondle, and like to include foreplay. In order to add some realism they also usually ask you to take out the trash and to stop playing xbox all night with your friends. YMMV.
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Lol. No Opguy, that's the WE (Wife Experience)
Ive found in my experience that GFE & PSE both invole kissing. But PSE done right will usually end with the hobbiest curled up in the fetal position when the session is over.
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Well in my exp. I have had very few real PSE most of what I have had is the GFE or just a Provider service no GFE.

PSE is more what you would think of a pron star would give you something off the chain and just wear you out with the service or something that is just wild as Hell I have only had a few do this the me. some mix a GFE/PSE where they will talk a bit maybe hold your hand while they are talking to you and some will kiss and then just wear you out.

GFE is more a Girl friend Exp. where they are more like a old girlfriend would be you know talking , and hanging out Kissing and then the fun stuff some will wear me out!

now the provider service I was talking about is more a BP girl would do very little talking , No kissing , just walk in and get undress and get to bussness not personal. I myself hate this and will not go back .

I love the GFE and a PSE/GFE
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These terms do not specifically relate to any type of acts. It is more attitude driven. One misconception is that PSE doesn't mean lessened intimacy. Here's how I break it down:

GFE is like being on a date with you girlfriend. You both are there to please each other, and she will do the things you expect a GF to do-- kiss, lots of foreplay, cuddle, be sensual, romantic and slower paced.

PSE is like what you see in porn-- limited foreplay, and then jumping into the action. Also, in PSE, the girl should probably be more open-minded in activities. BBBJ is expected, multiple positions is expected, getting freaky is expected-- facials, cum on tits, etc. To some degree greek, stripper slide and even BBFS are possible activities.