Bad Business Practices-- No shows, NCNS, No Response

Seen a couple of threads about this Again...

Providers and Hobbyists whose bad business practices make hobbying irritating for the rest of us.

Making Appts. and not following through,

Not showing up, no contact, no response, late response(hours, days, weeks, months later)

Delays, re-scheduling, bad or no excuses

This is a problem with both sides ( and yes, like everybody I have heard from providers in other cities that SA is known for this)

To me, this is stupid for both sides. Reminds me of customers and workers at "golden arches" or "Wallymart".

Seriously doubt it will change,, either side.


BUT, Thanks to all the Providers and Hobbyists that do what they say, send a simple text,pm, smoke signal.

I hate cell phones, texts, pm, etc.,,, but at least try to respond to attempts at contact and try to thank people that do the same.

It helps when friends from both sides tell you who does respond.


Good example: recently contacted a provider, we weren't able to connect in time frame(short notice). She responded and we were both sorry we missed chance, next time.
Message: neither felt waste of time, future opportunity for business(her) and fun(me).

Bad example: contacted provider, no response, over a month later. Response, got my pm she was available that night. Has happened several times, several different cities.
Message: Try to be friendly in response(but not interested in ever seeing provider).. Provider acts fine, but most likely puts it up as another time waster.

Several variations of this, response then delays, reschedules, cancels.

EVERYONE HAS LISTS AND CONTACTS OF WHO TO SEE AND WHO NOT TO SEE FOR THEM. (for this and other reasons)

Why lose business or fun because of a simple little response.

Understand harder for providers, because of so many requests(find a balance).. but after first contact, no excuses for silence

The answer to this problem is found in two words: maturity and respect. Those qualities are hard enough to find in the RW, much less here. It exists in both worlds, but it's also true in both worlds that a few bad apples can spoil the whole barrel.

From my experience, as a general rule the quality of TCB improves with the age of the lady. Among mongers, however, there are idiots and assholes of all ages.

Very valid thread ... but,

some potential issues ---

Certainly the ladies (and the gents) can post "lists" in their respective private areas detailing constant NCNS and also detailing lack of vouching and references.

But, of course, both of those private areas can be subject to "leaks," and Lord knows we wouldn't want certain folks (whoever they might be) to compromise the data.

However, I, for one, keep a very private track of folks in who my interest has been "dulled," "blunted" (not that kind of blunt!) or downright shucked from potential TDL or real time TDL.

Usually the above happens because I

-- never hear back when I send a pm or multiple pm's
-- can seem to never "connect" because times of day or other opportunities fail
-- NCNS (this is a biggie!)

And my potential TDL list is usually based on my likes/dislikes for timeliness, services, and other minor factors. Plus my appreciation and gratitude for (or lack of!) certain reviewers.

just my two centavos!

I can appreciate this thread as much as the next guy but it really needs to be put in context.

A very few of these ladies do this because they love sex and they conduct themselves with class and sophistication.


A few examples would be:
Sonya
Purrrsia
Ms. Francisca


This is by no means a comprehensive list of the solid "Professionals"
Ladies, please don't be offended if I left you out. The point is, the ladies in this category would succeed at whatever endeavor they chose. It's who they are.


But a majority of the providers are doing this because they don't have any other skills. If "customer service" was their strength they wouldn't be in the situation that they are in. They do it because they have no other choices to make the kind of money that they feel they need to.


They sad part is that they don't know how to handle the money once they have it. Money made this way takes discipline to be able to handle on a regular basis.


The ladies mentioned in the first category never post specials because rent is due. They don't offer BNGs to get their phone turned back on. They don't ask anyone to pay for an incall and take it out of the donation.


ARE YOU STARTING TO SEE A PATTERN HERE????

A valid thread indeed, and there is no reason for anyone from either side to NCNS. Delays and re-scheduling happen, RW issues can affect either side and if properly communicated should not be an issue.

At the very least a text saying you have to cancel. That should be too difficult.

lol, these responders and a couple others I figured would actually get the idea of my thread. (probably have been in hobby too long or know too many people, haha) sadly falls on too many deaf ears.

So many providers and hobbyists of all ages(mentally and physically) here and the real world have no clue how to conduct themselves, or why people complain or try to offer ways to improve their actions.


sad commentary of the world in general


ok, thanks again

Maturity on both sides makes a big difference.

yes, both sides need to chose individually who put on or off their own lists. (take available info, make your own decisions)

putting up on eccie, sadly lists on any sort really don't work for either side. they can be fun to read, but always take with a grain of salt.

Agree on Ms. Francisca, haven't had the pleasure of other 2 but have always heard great things about them.