I was reading some of my reviews and remembered my first time in the hobby and want to share and hope some of you will to including the ladies. I made a phone call from a ad ether yellow pages or newspaper ad for an escort (yep that is the way we did it). I was told to go to a hotel near Anniston and get a room and call from the room on the land line. Did that.About 30 min. later a knock on the door and a young woman was there with long dirty blond hair(color) with curls still wet from a shower. Looking back now she had us do a L E check touching she was beautiful. She was 24 I was 44 we talked a few and got comfortable (undressed). She produced a condom and put it on with her mouth and said he is already red and started taking me in her mouth. Then she laid back on the bed and put her ankles in her hands and I buried up in her as deep as I could and I lost it in a minute or two. She was beautiful and I will be eternally grateful for the good time and awakening. i hope so of the ladies will share there first time also. Maybe this should go on the nation wide post. I hope to hear from some of you.
First times...
It was a few years before I found the hobby... 1994 ish
Kinky and in an open marriage an ex bf suggested maybe I could make extra dollars with my oral skills. I agreed. He was a realator, very mater of fact we went into a house as if he was showing it to me, he undone his zipper and I took care of his needs. He paid I left. I liked it but had no clue how to keep doing it.
As a pro domme... It started with a sub guy I was seeing. He offered me the money in his pocket if I would just allow him to get off. I protested as I was not a 'whore' LOL. Well he got a blow job and I got cash. That turned me on more than anything ever had. It was illegal, it was a rush, it challanged my morals. I WAS ADDICTED... THAT WAS 2002.
We were just starting to find play partners on the internet. Creative Loafing got a fair share of my money back then. Those paper adds were a little unnerving. But the hobby was different then. It may sound crazy but it seemed safer than today. There was discretion and less drama. No one had anything on their mind but getting off.
Both of those events happened in Anniston... So deltaray... Do I know you? Do we have mutual friends... This pist has nade me smile reliving some of the calls and such.
Thank You Sir...
I was lucky enough to have Nikki Monroe break me in. She met me at a lunch spot near her place to get our ducks in a row and then went to her place to finish up. I walked out of there feeling like a million bucks. I spoke to her on the phone a couple weeks ago and it made my day and she's still a great person to know.
I don't think we have ever met but our roots go back to the same time mid 90s.
Memories. Lol. Well my first time:
I was in a relationship with an awesome lady who opened my eyes to so many things. She was very Bi and we would go to strip clubs out of town and have a blast. Well it was my 31st bday weekend and my girlfriend arranged a weekend at a nice 4 star hotel and said we could just devour each other all weekend. We check in and get settled in to our room and are relaxing and having a few drinks in the room and my girlfriend was getting all dolled up. I just thought we were about to hit the town and then we get a knock on the hotel door and she looks at me and said that's for you. I look at her all puzzled and figured she ordered room service or whatever. I open the door to my surprise and it's a lovely brunette wearing a rain style coat on with sexy wear underneath. Lol. She wrapped her arms around me and I look at my girlfriend and she just smiles and says "happy Birthday Baby" got us both a present for your "Bday"!! Wow what a time we all 3 had. So My SO at the time is who is to blame!!
Thanks for this thread deltaray!!
Yeah, we all fondly remember our first time in the hobby and the lady (or gent for the ladies) that introduced us to this wonderful experience.
After years of strip clubs, the old newspapers with adult ads (actually did find a few gems), Dutch window girls and German FKK clubs, I was getting tired of wasting a lot of money often without getting any satisfaction. Even in Europe, they are all GGG and always a hustle, with no concept of GFE.
So, with travel, I finally got the courage to call a lady that I found on her website. Lady BJ was her name and that's all she did. Sadly, she's now retired. I called her up and heard this deep scratchy voice and immediately hung up scared and shaking. But, my little head took over and I called her back. We chatted and I gave her some screening information. Within 90 minutes she was at my hotel room door and gave me the blowjob of my life (up to that point). I paid for an hour and she actually got two shots from me. Ahh, for my younger days.
She was a stereotypical NJ Jewish lady, rather small, probably 5 years older than me. She claimed, and had videos on her website to prove it that she could deepthroat a 9 inch cock. So, she had no problem with me. I guess that is why her voice was so deep and scratchy, she had obviously stretched her larynx.
Anyway, she introduced me to the hobby, online boards, and verification sites. How to be anonymous with a burner phone and hobby laptop, and most importantly, how to do research. Over the years, she became my mentor, the one I went to for advice when I had hobby troubles. She called me her consummate client and spoke proudly of the hobbyist she created.
Thanks for the thread and the trip down memory lane, deltaray!
Mine was at a strip club at the ripe old age of 19... Cute lil gal offered a bj for an extra hundred after a lap dance. I only had 80, but she did it anyway, and swallowed the evidence. I quickly became a regular, and she introduced me to all the girls who were extras friendly. Had sex in my Jeep at that place at least once a paycheck for about 3 years.