Let me begin by saying that (in my opinion) this Hobby is a partnership. We need Providers and they need us. I know this sight leans slightly in favor of us guys. But we must do our part and be respectful of their time as well as individual rules, guidelines, and needs. The Providers must likewise do the same for us.
In 14 months of enjoying the fruits of this Wonderful Hobby, I have met over 50+ ladies. I have NEVER NCNS on any Provider. Of those that I have encounter, I am more fond of some than I am others. As can be seen in my reviews, I am very respectful of the ladies need and desire for income. I go out of my way not to bash a particular Provider or even a fellow Hobbiest for that matter.
I have made one mistake with a new local Provider. She and I talked back and forth on other social media sites for a few weeks leading up to a possible meeting. At the last minute, I discovered that what she offered did not line up with what I wanted. I apologized profusely but let her know that I would not be reaching out to her for an appointment. She called me several names and is probably still mad at me now. I will not mention her name but I still feel bad about (unintentionally) leading her on. Although unintentional, it was all my fault. She knows who she is and I am still sorry for it.
I say all of that for fellow Hobbiest to know how hard it is to bring Janel Sauvage to the forefront. However, her dealings with me over the past week show a total lack of respect for anyone but herself.
She and I had text several times over the past few weeks. Schedules just never seemed to line up. I reached out to her last Wednesday. I told her that I had some Hobby Windows on Thursday and that if she planned on seeing anyone on Thursday that I could save her having to place an ad. She let me know that she wasn't seeing anyone on Thursday but was on Friday. I responded that I would love to enjoy her company during lunch if she had an incall. We set a time up for 11:30am this past Friday. She told me that she would text me the location on Friday morning once she decided on the incall location.
Friday roles around. It gets to be mid-morning and I haven't heard from her. I send her a text letting her know that I was looking forward to meeting her and that I would be heading towards Tyler about 11am. I send her 2 more text between 11am and 11:45am.
To give her the benefit of the doubt, I waited to get her side of the story. Maybe she was in a wreck or had a family emergency. She signed on to Eccie Saturday morning. Well ... she is alive. I sent her another text on Saturday afternoon asking her what happened and telling her that I wanted to get her side of the story before sharing my experience on Eccie. Still crickets from her on Saturday. On Sunday night (48 hours after her NCNS), she sends me a text that says "Hey just getting your text sorry didn't get to work Friday or this weekend. I couldn't check in to the place I usually book at bc it was too full and check in is at 3p everywhere else". I text back to her that same night within 30 minutes asking her why she wasn't more considerate of my time? I also sent her a message through Eccie PM. 36 hours from her last text, still no reply.
I went into detail of my unfortunate experience with Janel this past week. I thought long and hard about posted my experience. She is new on the scene and is local to Tyler (my home turf). Some might think I am crying because I went into so much detail. Not the case. I know I have probably ruined any chance I have of seeing her in the future.
If she were passing through, I probably would have tossed it up to the hazards of the hobby. But we have to keep local providers in check just as they should do with us should we NCNS on them.
Fellow Hobbiest ... beware that Janel will have little respect for your time or you as an individual. Here we are 3.5 days later and she isn't concerned enough to sincerely apologize for 1)her NCNS on Friday and 2)her lack of professionalism in attempting to make it right.
She and I have never met. I am positive now that we never will. I can live with that. I wouldn't feel right over the next few months seeing my fellow Hobbiest receiving the same treatment knowing that I could have warned them.