I do offer it.....BUT I prefer to arrange things with her......In Oregon,I did one,and I made the mistake of having the guy set it up and when the wife got to my room she freaked...she thought they were going by to visit his cosin who was supposdly visiting town.
In fact it's on my showcase as well- there is always a need for a third- somewhere-sometime.
I like Dallas' idea of setting it up via the girl as well, so there are no mis-understandings- Having said that, I am sure you will find what you are looking for, I know I am not the only one :-)
Good Luck