Just a little pissed off lately

The more I find out and see with my own eyes there aren't >hardly< any infamous,long lasting ladies left on Eccie.They are present on other websites but left this place.I look at Eros and you don't see the same women on this website or P411.Espcially UTR escorts that have a particular client base.Eccie from what I am hearing coincides with too much drama and not enough privacy.

Honestly I'm not even sure why I'm posting this cause it's not going to make a difference. I'm pretty sure I've seen a bunch of these same threads started but fuck if hers it goes. Why is it that these men feel they can call, Text, Email whatever and ser up a time and then an hour after we where supposed to meet you text and say you might have to cancel when just an hour ago you said you where running late and just give me a little while longer. But all hell would break loose and posts would be made about the provider if we did the same.Any way my point here is when did my time become any less valuable than yours. I am so sick of people waisting my time lately it's just crazy if you can't make your appointment and know your out hanging with your boys or whatever it is your doing why the helm are you making an appointment with me. This site is going downhill lately I swear

Originally Posted by CaseyK

I can completely understand. Twice this week alone I have booked rooms (pricey at that for client safety,comfort and discretion) and was faced with cancellations and rescheduling. I feel as if I should start asking for deposits or half for the room, something!!! I also thought a time or two about making it a "REQUIREMENT" for a client to first meet and greet with me in a public location(bar,restaurant,etc.) before we book a "session"... I took into consideration that most men value their discretion and reputation so I allowed the "meets" to be optional. I feel that the Gents should appreciate that we take time to answer the phone for them, set up an appointment to cater to their little hearts delight,and honor it by making adjustments... I got to find another site!

I think providers and clients could do a much better job communicating. Everyone's time is valuable. Perhaps a review of clients on this site would be helpful and make everyone more keen to establish a good reputation. In the meantime courtesy and understanding would go a long way. After all, Kasey you cancelled on me last minute not too terribly long ago. Things happen. I have never held it against you. We all have bad days but I wouldn't let it get me down. Hope your sessions turn out better.

Booking nice rooms are not cheap especially in Louisiana since the flooding.The escort has more to lose with money if she is doing incalls and that allows more privacy for the client not having to use his residence.Income is not made if she only does one or two appointments in a day and the client doesn't show.Sitting around in a motel room all day would drive me crazy.

Don't providers have an area on this website to warn each other about time wasting clients?

^Yes.
But according to Carolinacajun it looks like Karma is
visiting Casey

Carolinacajun again I do apologize and still would love to make it up to you! I've considered asking for deposits also. Its not Karma I didn't NCNS I did cancel last minute cause something came up but I had the decency to tell him I had to cancel not schedule days in advance and confirm all day to not show up then the next day excuse is I was out with friends and we stayed out later than expected. If you knew u had other obligations then Cancel all together Especially when it's a multiple hour session.. Instead of pulling the old it's gonna be an hour then another hour then stop answering. And it's not lack of screening cause lately it's been gents that I've seen before. I understand completely that life happens and people have to cancel but have the decency to cancel is basically what I'm saying. And just cause you out with ur boys isn't a reason to last minute stand someone up. And this is just one instance I'm talking about right now but it's happend way more than just once. I've been stood up more times than I've last minute had to cancel on some one. I really just felt the need to vent and just maybe the gents that have done this will read it and think twice about waisting our time and that goes for the providers to!
Anyway happy hobbying lady's and gents stay safe and hope everyone has a great week!
Xoxo
Caseyk

Staying out late with your friends is not a reason to blow off a set appointment with a client.A emergency is -->a relative at the hospital or you getting sick would constitute a real reason to cancel.Making up a cancellation would be a discount and he would have known you were genuine about his feelings but you didn't speak up to offer that.He would have been quick to let it go.Actions speak louder than words when you putting on a front.

Staying out late with your friends is not a reason to blow off a set appointment with a client/provider.A emergency is -->a relative at the hospital or you getting sick would constitute a real reason to cancel.Making up a cancellation to Cajun would be a discount and he would have known you were genuine about his feelings but you didn't speak up to offer that.He would have been quick to let it go.Actions speak louder than words when you putting on a front. Originally Posted by 1+1

notice I added two words.

I have to say I've been on the receiving end of last minute cancellations (incalls and outcalls) from well established ladies on this site. I've never called them out or held it against them. I've just chalked it up to shit happens (that's life). Just saying it goes both ways. Polite and considerate communications is always a plus.

I'm always very specific when communicating w/ a provider. Sometimes, I'm checking on general availability - but do NOT specify a time.

If I can make it - I call, but if her end changes, I understand, and if I can't make it, I hope she understands. Sometimes, I want to make it, but I can't.

Its part of pre-planning.

However, once a date is SET - time, place, duration, etc - then it is really a problem when one side or the other cancels.

Happens WAY too much it seems.

Sorry for your difficulties - but there are enough here to make it worth your while, I hope.

Well anyone who would rather hang out with the boys rather than see their provider has their priorities screwed up in my opinion anyway. What I'm saying is in agreement with O2B17, it goes both ways, and polite, considerate communication is the key. And you know, there's no need for us not to be sweet to each other. We are all still people here. If the provider cancels, she can offer a discount for next time. If the client cancels, almost all these ladies have a list of preferred gifts on their showcase. Bring them something nice if you really enjoy seeing them. And Casey if that client didn't even bother to call you and cancel, that is fucked up and I don't think anyone would blame you for refusing future appts with someone like that. Ya'll have a good week.