~*It Is What It Is*~

I have no shame in my game
here are my pros and cons:

~cons~

• bad time management skills: I love to take my time getting ready, I spend a lot of time primping, and dolling up . I prefer to be hard to get so that way I see the really determined gentleman first . I want our time together to be full of passion and excitement , not just some way to get off because your first 3 choices weren't available.
• bad at saying no - I get nervous about rejecting people, I don't like taking the time to explain to a stranger my reasons or explanations, I have hung up on several guys who continued to argue with me after I already repeated no 3 times. If you pressure me or beg I will say yes just to shut you up when really all you're in for is a big disappointment when you find out you can't get a hold of me again. I know it's not good business and misleading and just plain wrong . But I'm owning up to it .
  
• im short NOT TINY- I have curves and I'm not a spinner and have never claimed to be. I have 34c cup tits, they are nice and perky
  
• I'm not flawless I have stretch marks - on my stomach and inner thighs. Once I was 18 I got a much needed breast reduction. I went from and 36 double d to a 34c. So there are light scars underneath my chest from the procedure but with time have faded and become less noticeable. Also with a smaller chest came the ability to become more athletic so I lost a lot of weight very fast but kept my stretchmarks but they too have faded over time and I have been told they are hardly noticeable.
  
• Never had braces - so yeah my teeth aren't the straightest and I don't believe in whitening but I do brush and floss and always stay stocked on mouthwash
  
• I Fake Bake- I love to tan but just stopped using the beds so now I only mystic - for all my non tanners- a mystic is a sprayed on body bronzer and moisturizer that dyes the skin
  
• Young Dumb and Full of Cum - I don't mind talking and listening but I may not be the ideal company for some of you older men. I am still living a single young adult lifestyle. I have never been married and I don't have any kids so I can't give much feed back or advice when it comes to those subjects. I do love to laugh and share and listen about crazy story's and joke around. I'm still young and enjoying having fun.
• Ready? Set? You tell me when to go - I'm really bad at being the initiator. Especially if it is our first time meeting. I get nervous just like you might. I have heard that I am good at making my guest feel comfortable and less nervous. I don't have a problem starting conversation but I'll wait for you to make the first move after that - I wouldn't want to ever pressure somone into doing something they don't want to do or rush someone into doing something they might regret later, so with that said - I will wait for you to start first.
  

~*pros*~

• Cutiepie for a reason - I love to doll up. I keep up with my nails, toes, hair, and even my lingerie. I love doing my makeup but can still rock the all natural look if you prefer it. My collection of lingerie is exotic and always growing. Fishnets, stockings, leggings, thigh highs, lace, designed bras, butterfly thongs, sexy short nighties, cute boy-shorts, heels, and garters are all included. I am a steady 120 lbs with a chest that goes way further out then any other part of my body and a nice grab-able booty that sticks out on top of some nice thick thighs with muscles strong enough to ride at great ranges of speed for periods of time, slender calf's, and cute little feet . I have never been called a Monet ( a Monet is slang for a person that has a appearance that looks good from a distance but not up close) or a butterface ( a butterface is slang for someone who has an attractive body but unattractive face) .

• Great BCD skills- really don't understand still exactly what that means, but I keep getting complimented on it. I do know I am knowledgeable of many different positions , tricks, and fetishes. I have a full menu and aim to please. I really enjoy what I do and I have hard time hiding it
  
• 100% privacy - I am a firm believer that we all have lives outside of the hobby. I am not the kind of girl that will call , harass or blow up your phone. I only communicate with my clients after they contact me FIRST. Unless I am told otherwise, I just assume that they have an s.o. and I never want to jeopardize they're relationship for any reason. Your relationships outside of the hobby world are none of my business and I respect that.
• Not A Clock Watcher- I know I hate being rushed and find it easy to get lost in the moment if you're really enjoying what you're doing. So the last thing I would want to do is rush my guests and I really cherish the time we spend together so I get just as lost in the moment too and lose track of time. I can't picture myself being with someone, having a great time and then putting a timer on it all. When I'm with someone the last thing on my mind is a clock . If you go over your time I'm not going to make that big of a deal about it. If you're a gentleman you will leave the appropriate donation for the amount of time we shared. I don't ask for much and I don't like to discuss money at all during our time together , you should know prior to your arrival what I prefer my donations to be. I also understand that not all hobbyist have fat wallets so unless its 40 or more minutes over - I don't even worry about it.
  
• Clean and Comfy Catering- My incall is in the North West Medical Center: a respectable nice side of town. It is my own private apartment that I keep up with , keep clean, and am proud to share and show off to my guests . I stay stocked with water bottles, beverages and even some wine, just for my guests enjoyment. I also have a clean bathroom & shower available for use. There is soap, body wash, shampoo, lotion, mouth wash, toothpaste and even unopened brand new toothbrushes available as well as washcloths, towels and baby wipes.
  
• ALL IN ALL I AM A SWEET GIRL THAT YOU CAN HAVE A LOT OF FUN WITH- I don't have popularity in the hobby world because I'm a flavor of the month or a trend, I'm highly requested because I do provide great satisfaction. I am aware of my faults just as much as I am aware of my talents. I may not be good at being on time or having full availability - but everyone will agree that I am definitely worth the wait. Although I'm not a spinner, I still have a body I am proud of- I stay in shape as much as possible and take pride in my appearance.
  

I am who I am, and this is what it is. I want as many people as possible to understand that I am not conceited, fake, or ashamed. I am real. I am proud of my qualities and honest and aware of my flaws. Thank you for taking the time to read. Feel free to add whatever you like to either list, and/or share your opinions. Negative or positive- I appreciate your feedback

You Go Girl
Tell it how it is

IDK wouldn't it be easier to just say no, hang up, put em on block and never have to hear from them again? RATHER then say Ok give em your incall address and then ignore them. I don't know maybe Im wrong but if I dont want to see somebody I wont set a appt, I WONT GIVE THEM MY INCALL LOCATION and I will just put them on ignore. Or maybe try changing your number and not giving it out till you have screened and are ready to see somebody. This way you wont have to be put in the akward position to say no.

IDK wouldn't it be easier to just say no, hang up, put em on block and never have to hear from them again? RATHER then say Ok give em your incall address and then ignore them. I don't know maybe Im wrong but if I dont want to see somebody I wont set a appt, I WONT GIVE THEM MY INCALL LOCATION and I will just put them on ignore. Or maybe try changing your number and not giving it out till you have screened and are ready to see somebody. This way you wont have to be put in the akward position to say no. Originally Posted by Audrina Monroe

Some guys out there are very good with their words and manipulating so I get easily talked into finding time for them or squeezing something in last minute. Most of my new visitors come from another provider that I am close with so screen isn't necessary because I know she has seen them or meet them in person during her sessions. Since we share an incall they also already know where to go. Anyways Im just admitting to being a big push over at times and trying to make things work when its not even possible. I have changed my number before.

You Go Girl
Tell it how it is Originally Posted by Mr.Majestyk

thx I really appreciate your continued support

also for all of those who have been mocking my reply to a previous alert when I was feeling unsafe I would just like to give you all a BIG

FUCK YOU!
seriously I was going through a moment of weakness, and for you to kick me when I was already down - I hope you get repeated ncns experiences

I guess this makes everything OK. You are now free to waste the time and money of anybody you want to. You self centered petulant little girl. Grow the fuck up.

ive been a fan of yours cristie...
but sometimes its just best to say nothing.
i hope this thread is more helpful in people understanding you versus harmful..for the same reasons.
good luck girlie!!!
wish you the best

Interesting.

Some guys out there are very good with their words and manipulating so I get easily talked into finding time for them or squeezing something in last minute. Most of my new visitors come from another provider that I am close with so screen isn't necessary because I know she has seen them or meet them in person during her sessions. Since we share an incall they also already know where to go. Anyways Im just admitting to being a big push over at times and trying to make things work when its not even possible. I have changed my number before. Originally Posted by Cristi Cutiepie

Cristi, I hope you dont think that I was trying to be mean orcome at you in a negative way. That was not my intention I was just trying to give friendly advice. Truth is nobody is perfect and everybody makes mistakes, but we have to learn from our mistakes. Life is a learning process and this little world of ours is not as easy as people think. That being said I think that we should all treat others with the respect and common courtesy we expect ourselves.

I guess this makes everything OK. You are now free to waste the time and money of anybody you want to. You self centered petulant little girl. Grow the fuck up. Originally Posted by Budman

doesn't make it okay, and never said it was supposed to. I'm just owning up to it and taking full blame. I'm grown enough to do that .

Cristi, I hope you dont think that I was trying to be mean orcome at you in a negative way. That was not my intention I was just trying to give friendly advice. Truth is nobody is perfect and everybody makes mistakes, but we have to learn from our mistakes. Life is a learning process and this little world of ours is not as easy as people think. That being said I think that we should all treat others with the respect and common courtesy we expect ourselves. Originally Posted by Audrina Monroe

No hun, I welcome everyone's opinion no matter what. Thank you for your input. I believe that it takes respect to get respect ... I am mirror I reflect what you show me.

Cristi, please don't take this wrong as I'm not trying to be a smartass. I took the time to read your thread, as I was interested in what you had to express, but next time, PLEASE use a different font because this is difficult to read. (wink, wink!)

bad at saying no - I get nervous about rejecting people, I don't like taking the time to explain to a stranger my reasons or explanations, I have hung up on several guys who continued to argue with me after I already repeated no 3 times. If you pressure me or beg I will say yes just to shut you up when really all you're in for is a big disappointment when you find out you can't get a hold of me again. I know it's not good business and misleading and just plain wrong . But I'm owning up to it.

This part got to me the most. I understand your frustrations hon, but it's NEVER respectful to *play* someone like this...and, just because you say you are guilty of it, does not make it any less aggravating or appropriate.

You say you don't like rejecting people, yet, you'd rather *play* with their emotions when they're only wanting to see you? Think about that...is that what you would want someone to do to you?

You just said it yourself, "...it takes respect to get respect." You can't expect respect or even give it, if you don't know how to extend it...just sayin'. Besides that, whenever this sort of thing happens...it reflects on the other providers, and sometimes, we end up paying the price for their bad experience...can you understand that?

Now, where's Flinde when you need him? (lol)

Budman...I've known you for many years and I respect your *frank* opinions, but your remark here is very cruel. You wonder why these young girls *hate* to spend time with some of the gents...because of this type of attitude toward them. We're grown adults...but, that doesn't make us any less vunerable to making a few mistakes, or having an attitude.

I'm not justifying her way of running her business, but sometimes, we should *listen* and *hear* what is being said...instead of judging someone. We may not know everything she is dealing with...and maybe she's just doing the best she can right now.

And, if she has some tolerance from some of us, maybe she'll learn to become the provider *YOU* would want her to be...or, maybe Cristie will just be Cristie, and some will just love her for being herself.

You know...I just don't think you can please everyone all the time. Each girl is different from the next. I think Audrina offered some good advise. I know it is hard to say no, but sometimes you just have to. I have had a few no's from some very nice and reputable ladies here. I just moved on and did not complain about it. Nikki you are right in saying Cristi will be Cristi. There are people in this wold and hobby world that will be who they are and that is who they will be. You can't change someone.

doesn't make it okay, and never said it was supposed to. I'm just owning up to it and taking full blame. I'm grown enough to do that . Originally Posted by Cristi Cutiepie

You're not owning up to it; you're just making excuses and trying to justify your juvenile behavior. I sense no remorse or guilt in you posting for your behavior (it is what it is).