Services... Whats on the menu?

I have had a long night with no sleep... So my mind has wandered to this part of my life...

So what is most important to you? What do you expect when you walk thru the door? What makes it worthy of a donation? Full sex, just oral, anal, kissing deeply... Is there a position that gurantees you have found your fantasy girl?

There are things I enjoy that I keep just for my personal life. Do you guys have those special things too?

Do you want to hear us brag about how perfect ir crapy our last lover was or do you want to pretend there is no one else? Some of you have asked me about others, so I am curious do you want the truth or a fantasy answer to get you going?

I have been reading what I can of reviews. Seeing the replys. It seems the younger or newer girls do not see the hobby the same as some of us older / more experienced ladies do... So I thought by asking this question giving you a chance to speak up maybe they will read it and learn from your thoughts...

I have been with my share of providers thru the years. I have heard what they think off the clock. I do know communication of expectations is the biggest issue when older gents play with younger girls...

So come on... Inquiring minds want to know...

I guess I qualify as a younger guy, as I just hit thirty a month ago. I tend to like the more experienced ladies. The attitude that the more mature providers have is worth the donation alone.

I think thats the deal... Younger ladies may have a look but they do not seem to have the confidence to truly enjoy their own body much less know how to truly let go and enjoy yours...

Its easy to say here I am do me... Or make you feel as if she is doing you a favor being with you... But the reality is I am about mutual satisfaction and the gents I see want to feel appreciated for taking care of my needs too...

I honestly think young girls can give the same service older ladies do if someone just takes the time to explain to them... They do not know what older gents need as in their personal life the guys they see are younger n single and just about hit it n get its...

I do not see younger because it never feels real for me... Its just work... I need to simmer abit to get the best results... I am sure most younger girls have never had a man take his time and show them what real passion and old school making out is all about her...

Exactly. The build up is what makes the climax mind blowing. Taking the time to mutually enjoy each other is lost on younger girls.

I do know communication of expectations is the biggest issue when older gents play with younger girls... Originally Posted by heidis_pleasure

This might be true. But I'm all about asking for what I want and I won't settle. On the contrary to the above quote older providers tend to have more issue with communication on the whole of services and expectations for a meet. They want more creative control while the younger ones go with the flow and don't mind being submissive in control. The older ones are more used to guys not even concerning themselves with service communications and not clarifying with it, hoping for the best, and wanting to just go with the flow. Not on my dime. Id rather confirm what I like and be assured it's what I'll receive. If a chick finds issue with that or gives you delayed responses to your inquiry it's a tale tale sign she couldn't accommodate you anyway.

Age doesn't matter to me as much as performance does. As long as a provider has adequate cartilage in her knees for multiple sexual positions like Asian cowgirl without limits or excuses I'm all for it.

Ok here is a little input from an old guy, 68 and still playing. GFE pretty much sums it up which I expect to include caressing, cuddling, kissing (LFK or DFK), DATY, BBBJ,and multiple positions that are mutually enjoyable to both. Multiple "O's" for her and MSOG for me depending on session length is always nice. It makes for a great evening if the two or maybe the occasional three of us enjoy ones canes company and the festivities together. So to do that I generally seek a two hour or longer engagement. I almost always stay above 25, but 25-35 can possibly spark my moment of prowess. Then the seasoned traveler and I are more likely to enjoy the intimacy of the evening. Retirement has put a damper on all of these adventures.

My good friend GreyGhost described it well. But let me take it a step further.

The ideal session for me is one where the woman makes me feel totally relaxed and comfortable. We talk and chat about intimate things and seem to naturally be drawn to each other. She is fun and flirty; she smiles at my corny jokes and puns. She helps us find things in common to talk about. She is comfortable in her own skin and is sexy and enticing and acts like she wants us to be intimate together as much as me. She is responsive during our session and convincingly appears to enjoy herself as much if not more than me. The best ones make me feel like the young stud that I will never be again. Afterwards, she is in no hurry to get me out the door. She tells me that she wants to see me again and how much she enjoyed my company. We part as lovers and friends that long to see each other again.

That is the fantasy that I am paying for. When I find this, I tend to repeat. Often. The best ladies continue to develop a relationship with me as we become even more comfortable with each other and know each others likes and dislikes more and more. When we see each other again, she remembers who I am and appears that she really is happy to see me again.

What does it for me is a woman who is fully engaged in our encounter, enthusiastic about our time together, and as willing to be pleased as she is to please. It has to be a two way street for me to be wowed. I love kissing, oral (both giving and receiving) is a requirement, and if toys are guaranteed to get you off, bring 'em on! Good convo before and after makes for the perfect date.

Well, from and old farts perspective, If its the first time seeing the provider I don't expect a kiss but a hug and a very friendly smile and demeanor would be great. Although I will say that most of the GFE providers I've seen through the years greeted me at the door with a kiss. I for one don't really care what you're wearing when you greet me, its comin off sooner rather than later the majority of the time anyway. Your make up and hair is gonna be messed up anyway. Just be clean and fresh. The only thing I'd ask that you not do that I get at home is complain. I get plenty of that at home. As far as the provider talking about what she does with other clients, I'd rather not hear it. I don't care how big, little, or how quickly they get off. Now if you need someone to talk to about a recent past experience without giving names, I don't mind lending an ear for someone to vent about how big of an ass someone was. I will say though, I'm also open to constructive criticism. I'm comfortable with my skills but there is always room for improvement. One should always strive to be the best you can be.

Ok here is a little input from an old guy, 68 and still playing. GFE pretty much sums it up which I expect to include caressing, cuddling, kissing (LFK or DFK), DATY, BBBJ,and multiple positions that are mutually enjoyable to both. Multiple "O's" for her and MSOG for me depending on session length is always nice. It makes for a great evening if the two or maybe the occasional three of us enjoy ones canes company and the festivities together. So to do that I generally seek a two hour or longer engagement. I almost always stay above 25, but 25-35 can possibly spark my moment of prowess. Then the seasoned traveler and I are more likely to enjoy the intimacy of the evening. Retirement has put a damper on all of these adventures. Originally Posted by greyghost48

Well it's certainly nice to be a "seasoned" younger lady lol (i've been honing my craft professionally 7 yrs in Feb 2017).
My preference is very much for longer dates. I firmly believe in not rushing a good thing .
I do hope you can find your way back to the festivities soon...don't let retirement get you down!
This thread slightly reminds me of a topic in 'Another Realm' about Older Men Younger Women and I said there bring me your salt n' pepper and white haired...they're warmly welcomed in my bountiful bosoms.