Ladies ~ Gentlemen~ Please Read.. Re: REFERENCES!;

I am REALLY Selective about who I spend time with. .I have ALWAYS been that way.
GENTLEMEN.. if you have spent time with me & need me for a reference..
PLEASE contact me first...I have told you this in our parting Convo.
NOT so I can convince you to see me.. I'm not like that..I never will be..
BUT so I know 100℅ WHO YOU ARE!!
I am going to do better about keeping
Light info for that purpose..

I am EXTREMELY busy..I don't have time to do detective work..OR research..

Ladies if a GENTLEMAN uses me as a REFERENCE..I am good for 6 months after our last meeting..
& Please contact me via PM..here or P411
Not email or phone
Why??
So I know you're not his wife or his wife's Detective or an employer...get my drift...

And this a process that
A. Keeps everyone safe
B. You get your reference QUICKLY
C. Just my REFERENCE POLICY
OXOXXX

Savannah, you are a good member of the community. Thank you for all you do. You're out there putting out some solid advice, talking up the other ladies (that's true selflessness), and just being an all around good person. (in addition to being sexy as hell!)
Stay classy, Lady.

GREAT points.,...and ditto...screening is MOST important!

Great post! My ad says to provide links to their showcases, so I can pm them. I still get phone numbers! I dunno who can be on the or he other end! I also ask for details that would help the provider remember them. C'mon they may have seen 2 girls in a month and the provider may have seen 15 or more client! It's hard to remember unless you set up a data base and spend hours on that. Yes guys, we are also busy with work, etc. So make it a quick and easy process

Thank You..
I am firm with this Policy.

I will say, one time I sent a request through p411, and the lady went and contacted some of my OKs for references, so I was unable to give a heads up about it. It has only happened once so I do not think it is common, but it has happened to me.

If I get a direct hit from a lady then I tell her my Policy & redirect her.
GENERALLY I don't get much flack about it ..but I figure ..
Look it for everyone's safety.
Yours ..mine..& theirs.
I have had wives contact me...
And hey I have no idea what they are talking about.
I could tell you some CRAZY stories..
OMGGGG

I really want to hear some crazy stories!

I really want to hear some crazy stories! Originally Posted by Sparky44

Then you will have to come see me
OXOXXX

I prefer p411 it is easier than providing numbers,names,or links .less time and no problem setting up a appointment with a lady like Dallas Hi babe !

I will get a message ..PM..text..email
Goes like
A gentleman named PEANUT has given me Your name as a reference
His # is
111-222-3333
Really?
I generally do not keep info HANDY
And I may know 15 PEANUTS
If I start seeing someone regularly..
I may ( doubtful) recognize the number..
But then ..who are you?
I agree P411 is FANTASTIC..
Elimates a lot of that.
I will get messages from P411 after I have given an OK to a client and they ask If he was safe ect..WELL I gave him an OK..therefore he met all of the OK criteria..LOL

Thank you for sharing. You raised some super valid points.

Thank you for posting this.

You are very welcome!!
Thank you all for your input & response on this subject!!

Just want to say..I don't care who you are..or what your circumstances are..
IF a gentleman uses me as a Reference
I am here for EVERYONE.PERIOD!!
Be safe
Stay warm
Happy Holidays!!!