Here is my confession: Never had one. I hear and read so much about it. Gents: Is it that good? And who is best for this experience?
Ladies: If you give good prostate massage, why do you like it? How did you discovered your talent?
So I finally picked a provider who was supposed to be good at this and gave it a try after reading lots of people rave about it. Going in, I was thinking there was something like a technique or special way of massaging the prostate that was supposed to make it feel great. What I experienced was 15 uncomfortable minutes of a woman just shoving her finger back and forth in my ass while giving me a BJ. Did completely nothing for me.I'm gonna refrain from chiming in...but this shit is hilarious. all kinds of comedic gems here
I'm back to believing that the guys who are big into this are just mentally getting off on the idea of having something in their ass. Different strokes for different folks but it's not for me. Unfortunately even really good TUMA doesn't doing anything sexually for me. It feels really nice, but sexually, nada. Originally Posted by citizen44
So I finally picked a provider who was supposed to be good at this and gave it a try after reading lots of people rave about it. Going in, I was thinking there was something like a technique or special way of massaging the prostate that was supposed to make it feel great. What I experienced was 15 uncomfortable minutes of a woman just shoving her finger back and forth in my ass while giving me a BJ. Did completely nothing for me.I agree with you. I've tried both but it didn't do anything for me either. Tuma is more like cleaning your ass with wet toilet paper. Prostate play is a little strange. I had a chick here named syren I think sexy black dom chick. She was fun and experenced so I think I got a good session. I just don't know if that's for me. You really feel like you need to take a big shit. Its just not very sexual to me. I would recommend the girl I saw as she took her time was patient slowly increasing the experience. She also used gloves so it felt a lot more sanitary.
I'm back to believing that the guys who are big into this are just mentally getting off on the idea of having something in their ass. Different strokes for different folks but it's not for me. Unfortunately even really good TUMA doesn't doing anything sexually for me. It feels really nice, but sexually, nada. Originally Posted by citizen44
I had no idea what it was when I first started FBSM.Your pinky isn't long enough to reach
My boyfriend showed me. I use a condom or glove on my finger/hand and lots of lube. I was taught to use my pinky finger very gently at first, don't want to shock or hurt anyone.
The key is to gently stroke the area with your fingertip in a "come here" motion. Basically tickling the area in between balls and ass , where the prostate is located. Some guys like to feel a finger gently all around the opening ridge inside. Everyone is different, and the key is to be slow and gentle and not rough.
Using a glove is very important, and study up on how to remove gloves to avoid contaminating anything. Always wash your hands at least twice after removing gloves using plenty of soap. Originally Posted by cinderbella