Prostate Self Massagers - How Do I Pick the Right One?

Hi all,

To be perfectly blunt, I tried to massage my prostate this evening. I think I found it, since while I was "in there" the area I was massaging felt good and made me feel like I had to pee. However, I was using my fingers and couldn't massage it properly because I couldn't quite reach it.

So I want to get a real prostate massager, but don't know what one to get. What do I look for when selecting one? What shape is better? Vibrating or not? Size?

I'm new to the whole prostate massage thing, but I like what I felt. I want to explore this some more.

Men: can you help me? What do you use?
Providers: can you help me? What do your clients prefer?

Thanks!
Just a note to say "ditto" to your inquiry. I am a big fan of anal play, and love when a lady provides such a personal service. But, when involved in "solo" play, the right toy for the job would be great! Any info would be great!
I always used a small vibrator...it was about 2 fingers wide and a little longer then my fingers....I have also used anal beads and butt plugs with my mega body wand touching the outside so you will feel the vibration on the inside....never had any complaints...actually think it may have been mentioned in a review I'm just not sure
Solemate62's Avatar
Noooooo.......not me!
The Big Kahuna's Avatar
I struggled with this for years. Just to lay there out of touch with reality and consumed with the pleasure of a prostate massage.

The best thing I have found is the following:

https://www.extremerestraints.com/el...plugs_584.html
Power it with this: http://www.zeuselectrosex.com/ac126.php

Choose the size that "fits" you, but I will say that you will probably end up retrieving the smaller one with the wire.

Now before you freak out, this works like a TENS on your back. You feel no electrical shock, it just stimulates the muscles that it is in contact with. There are three settings that either thump or pulse or a combination. I have found that gradually increasing the level of intensity increases the pleasure. Another point, these are made of rigid plastic and the contacts are metal. After I felt uncomfortable with the cleanliness of the first one I had, I purchased a second and sealed it with silicone. Worked like a charm. Hit the sweet spot here and it will actually produce a hands free orgasm.

PS...do not be fooled by the fact that it is only powered by 2 AA batteries. If you hold it in your hand and turn it on high, I promise you'll go WTF there is no way I putting that up my ass, but trust me, start low and work up. You will be in bliss.
The best way is a sweet young or mature lady while she pumps your hard dick with her hand and mouth. Failing that, I bought one of these. https://www.amazon.com/NEXUS-REVO-BL.../dp/B00L3739HK

It works pretty well, but not as good as a finger. I would think that a curved massager shaped like a C would work very nicely also. Dallas Rain is the best way to get a prostate massage tho.
Damn......that Zeuse item looks awesome! (Santa, are you listening?)
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I found an slim anal vibrating anal plug that works well on me. And I've used it on several ladies who enjoy greek - you put in their ass and lick their clit - great results!

JaG
Anyone else have anything to add? I was unsuccessful when I tried a curved, non vibrating toy. Looks like I'll need to look for a vibrator. Silly question, but are some made specifically for men's asses?
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I always used a small vibrator...it was about 2 fingers wide and a little longer then my fingers....I have also used anal beads and butt plugs with my mega body wand touching the outside so you will feel the vibration on the inside....never had any complaints...actually think it may have been mentioned in a review I'm just not sure Originally Posted by babykins78
she knows of what she speaks.... the vibrations will do the trick!!!
DallasRain's Avatar
I got hooked on the Aneros products. They are the best quality, best designed products available to hit the p-spot.
I've got them all. It takes quite a bit of practice but well worth it. Their website has a great blog that tells you how to use them and gives great advice.
My favorite by far is the vibrating model. I can't remember the name of it but they only have one that vibrates. I use it all the time. By itself and while I fuck. It's the bomb.
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The Big Gay Review is written by a gay man but his critic's reviews of prostate massagers and mastubators are really well written and informative. https://thebiggayreview.com/reviews/prostate-massagers
I think we need to consult an urologist on this. Too many things could go awry down in there...
Life is too short to do this yourself. Outsource that shit to a sexy woman!