Apology for the disruption in the fun. Game on people!

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Hello, friends. I'm Laney Lixx. Today is a sad day at best. Not only have a lost a good friend, I have been called out in a public forum for an anonymous post on my anonymous blog.

Yes, Naughty Little Native and i did have some disagreements over the importance of cash and it's place in our friendship. I don't believe it should exist there, but... I do not decide other's personal choices. So, I ended the friendship.

As always, I blogged about it. I never called out any names. I meant to embarrass no one. It is something I do daily in my life as a form of venting off steam. Yes, it was a message to her. But only she should have been offended, because only she knew it to be about her. (Where the facts not true, perhaps she wouldn't have assumed it was her.)

Then I find I am being called out of my name, even cussed outright here where we both do our best to keep up good appearances. I know no reason for this except to harm someone's standing. I would not wish to do that to anyone for fear other's would be persuaded to feel the way I do without giving anyone a chance. That's just not how I live my life.

But here I am, and it is continuing with no intereherence. I am not only shocked, I am dismayed that this is allowed to carry on at all. The forum guidelines warn against these exact type of hateful sentiments now being allowed to thrive here.

I apologize for anyone being drawn into this mess at all. It's totally ridiculous if you ask me. She had the ability to also blog her feelings but chose to bring all of ya'll into it instead. I may be new here, but I hope that honesty accounts for something.

Thank you for listening and I apologize once again.

Laney
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Did i or did i ask you to speak about this in person you opted out. You are MAD becauae i asked you to do a double and you said "im working" so i replied cool ill see if my friend is down you wrote me this morning at like 5 am talkin shit

It was not about CASH wtf you kept saying all u care about is money all u care about is money and all i even said about money was that im always bringing money to your pockets but you do not do the same and that i am tired of being involved in one sided friendships that is the texts you can post them or i Can!!!!

I'm done with this. Get over it. This is not the place and in done defending myself against lies and profanity. I hope you achieved what you wished. Im out.

You too, i have been over it. I dont even read what u write any more. So bye bye

Not taking any sides but bringing this drama between you two out in the open doesn't really help, only in the venting dept I guess. As an outsider just reading all of this I hope you two can come to a common ground even if the friendship is over.

Not taking any sides but bringing this drama between you two out in the open doesn't really help, only in the venting dept I guess. As an outsider just reading all of this I hope you two can come to a common ground even if the friendship is over. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

I totally agree. I don't know the whole story of what happened, and it's none of my business. But if there's an issue between two people, then I believe it should stay between those two people. Not brought into an open forum.

I've been through a few arguments and failed friendships. Arguing via text or email is NOT the way to go. Everyone has to be the adult and TALK it out, either over the phone or in person.

Talk to each other. Work it out. If it can't be worked out, then just agree to disagree and go your separate ways.

Just my two-cents. Not taking sides. I'm staying neutral.

I echo rrabbits comments. Let this go.

I100% agreed from the beginning. Thank you.

I totally agree. I don't know the whole story of what happened, and it's none of my business. But if there's an issue between two people, then I believe it should stay between those two people. Not brought into an open forum.

I've been through a few arguments and failed friendships. Arguing via text or email is NOT the way to go. Everyone has to be the adult and TALK it out, either over the phone or in person.

Talk to each other. Work it out. If it can't be worked out, then just agree to disagree and go your separate ways.

Just my two-cents. Not taking sides. I'm staying neutral. Originally Posted by BulldogCountry

Exactly what i asked her to do but she ran to her blog. Been done with this

Facebook is kinda like MY blog. Many times I've made "vague" posts on there just to "vent" and get things off my chest. I never name names or give out too much info that could identify anyone. I try not to even use "he" or "she" to make it even more vague.

Sometimes I get some advice from friends on how to proceed with my problem.

Sometimes the person it's about sees the post, and they respond (which usually causes me a shit storm).

And sometimes even people respond who THINK it's about them, but it really isn't, and you have to try to convince them that it was not about them in the first place (usually hard to do).

This Facebook technique is dubbed as "Vaguebooking".

I've gotten better by not venting about stuff on social media, but I still do from time to time.

I live by myself, so I have no one to come home to after a long day and talk to about stuff that's on my mind. If something is bothering me, I go to Facebook. Usually not the best choice, but it happens.

Just a little note to NLN &LL

I know where you are coming from

About a year or so ago I really don't know how long it was. I for the most part just live in the day so most every thing to me is a year or so ago Lmao......But

I was seeing a provider ( well like some providers everyone knows I can't just see one lol).

But she called me for some help and I did help her and after that she didn't know who I was. Wouldn't see me wouldn't talk to me. You know I thought me and her was friends.I really felt betrayed and used, it wouldn't have been so bad but like I said I saw her as a friend not a provider.Well I made a post on here warning the other guys about her and no one really cared.

Well just to make a long story a little shorter we got into it a few time on the broad and another provider I was seeing made a post I will never forget .

I think you are a sweetheart, Somethings are just not worth the stress or the headache.

Now what is funny I was on a thread with the provider in my story a few mouths ago and I PMed her and we talked and was nice to each other. she has even pmed me here and on P411 a few time . We get along now she even ask me to see her again. But I wont see her anymore but I have let all the BS go.

Things Have a way of just working itself out!

But remember Something are not worth the stress or the headache !

NLN is a saint.... nobody puts NLN in a corner

It's just a misunderstanding between you 2. Is it of a magnitude that you'd want to throw away a friendship? Do handle it with a little more decorum though. Airing your laundry out in the forum isn't the way 2 friends should behave. Even frenemies.

A few days ago:

Hey anyone that knows the real laney wouldn't complain- you're beautiful outside and in. Originally Posted by NaughtyLittleNative

And now this? What's changed?

Was there any treachery involved or any malicious intent in all that happened between the 2 of you? I somehow don't think so. Posting a blog to vent, not naming anyone specifically, doesn't strike me as a malicious act. It's an outlet to vent. Other than having your feathers ruffled a little bit. How did it affect either one of you since you both posted blogs? More like a difference of opinion and bad timing between you 2.

C'mon ladies. Now kiss and make-up and then makeout. Forget hatchets & daggers. Bury dildoes deep in each other. That's what we guys want to hear or see in here anyway. LOL.

Geez, and they say guys can't communicate with women cause we're from Mars.

Listen this is what happened a week or so ago a gent fromtexas contacted me on eccie i met him 2 times that week. He also seen Laney. Laney is upset because she fell for the guy i still seen the guy. I told her that my bills are due. She got mad we were still friends or at least i thought so since she was texting me asking for help doin her hair i told her id be by later on. That was the day after i asked her to do a double and she did not respond z then she asks me to do her hair. So u guys can imagine my confusion bc since she didnt even respond I thought she was winging off of me which I understand but nope i guess she needed me but when i couldnt come running at 9 am to do her hair she doesn't respond the rest of the day i had another friend want a double so i wrote laney again she responds with im working i said ok cool ill see if my friend is down. She doesn't respond til that morning flipping out on me and basically telling me im a bad person.