Like everything in life, it's not who you know, or who you blow, but how well you blow who you know.
Some girls pop up with Verified Status (required to be able to post in the ads sections) since they have some well-established member vouch for them. Other girls complain about how long the process takes. In defense of the admins, the girl has to respond to an email, I believe within 24 hours, or they have to reapply.