March Madness

I was just going to post this in the provider infoshare section but as some of you do not have access to that area yet, I'm going to put it right here & hope that this helps someone else before it happens to them as well.
I have a problem with a client who is bothering me on here & in my personal life. I don't know that I would call him a stalker but it seems as if that may what he is. He calls me every hour of the night even when I've asked him to delete my number. He has came to my place of employment & I've seen him at the grocery store even though he doesn't live in my area. He leaves notes on my car & generally makes a nuisance of himself. He has been posting on this board lately & I've even seen him causing problems on one of my review threads. Please just ignore him & maybe he will leave me alone. I don't want other girls to have to deal with these issues with him so please PM me for his info.

Sorry to hear about that Allie. No one should have to deal with that kind of nonsense.

The term "stalker" makes me think of a guy with a butcher knife and a hard-on, to borrow a quip from Harry Callahan.

At the very least, what you're describing certainly sounds like unwelcomed advances or just plain harassment.

Sorry also to hear this. Its a shame when a person cant get the hint to leave another alone.

First off, very sorry to hear about ur situation...NO CREEP is entitled to this type of unacceptable behavior...period

That said, I have always admired Allie posting style...seem like a cool person

But boy, what a stream of drama related to her lately.

Have no direct knowledge, and sounds like in this thread she is an unfortunate victim. Hopefully this situation will be rectified.

But unrelated, sometimes drama follows drama queen/king

Just a thought

vkmaster, I agree. I hate strife of any kind. This month it seems to have decided to seek me out. Despite the situation or how disappointed I am in members unorthodox manuevers, all I can do is shrug it off & move forward. Happy hobbying everyone & thank you for all the kind words I received through PMs, texts & phone calls. It makes me feel so much better to know that there are so many people out there who care.
Fortunately this post seems to have alleviated some of my stalker concerns.

Allie, you have a great attitude. Letting the past be the past is a terrific lead. If everyone would follow your example of shrugging it off and moving forward, the world will be a better place.

Allie, you have a great attitude. Letting the past be the past is a terrific lead. If everyone would follow your example of shrugging it off and moving forward, the world will be a better place.
Originally Posted by perpetualdesign

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I was just going to post this in the provider infoshare section but as some of you do not have access to that area yet, I'm going to put it right here & hope that this helps someone else before it happens to them as well.
I have a problem with a client who is bothering me on here & in my personal life. I don't know that I would call him a stalker but it seems as if that may what he is. He calls me every hour of the night even when I've asked him to delete my number. He has came to my place of employment & I've seen him at the grocery store even though he doesn't live in my area. He leaves notes on my car & generally makes a nuisance of himself. He has been posting on this board lately & I've even seen him causing problems on one of my review threads. Please just ignore him & maybe he will leave me alone. I don't want other girls to have to deal with these issues with him so please PM me for his info. Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

A classy lady like you shouldn't have to put up with this...
I'm so sorry...
There are a lot of us that care about you...
I urge you to be very careful.. sometimes these obsessions can take a violent turn. If he continues to intrude in your life...your only recourse may be to contact the police...

Thank you gramps, I don't think involving the authorities would be the prudent action to take at this point in time. I think he read this thread, the harassment has subsided.
I've never really had a problem with a board member before so I was sort of at a loss about what to do about the situation. I'm glad everyone is so understanding & helpful. I'm happy to say that most of the men here accord the providers the same amount of respect as their fellow hobbyists. Not many areas can share that same statement.