Your Ideal Client?

Describe them. What makes an ideal client for you? One that when you see a PM or text from them, you honestly think "I WANT to book an appointment with that guy!"

Great post baby.....I would say it is a gent I have made a connection with....someone who makesd me feel like I am special to them and they WANT to be with me because we have fun together!

I Hear ya Dallas but what is it about that gent that shows that? Is there some nebulous connection where it's obvious it's more than sex? Is it when he takes an interest in you beyond playtime?

It seems that theres a complicated line here . How do you connect beyond the sex but not so far beyond it that it crosses the client / provider line.

And that doesn't even touch the discussion of how much of your true self/identity you let your clients in on?

I do have a more intimate or more personal connection with a few of my clients..but I have known them quite awhile..I have a few gents in every city I tour to that I see every time I visit..you can't see a person over 20 or 30 times without becoming personal to some degree.......one gent I have known almoat ten years!

For me it is the little things..like their attention ti details...their zest for fun and adventure...their willingness to open themselves up in our conversations.....etc
It is more than sex..it is an experience we share and enjoy on a more intimate or personal level....like a friendship with benefits.

I have a couple gents know my rw name and some of my life story....I even have one that has made a large wooden rocking horse for my grandman.

Dallas ..has there ever been one that (to use a good Pretty Woman line) if he had asked "Stay with me.. not because I'm paying you but because you want to" that you would have said yes?

Lol thete is one that tells me whenever I am ready that I can move in with him...but even though I am "more personal" with these gents they know that there is a line NOT to be crossed.

LOL! Look if the dude built you a rocking horse.. he's keeper material!!!

Your last comment I guess is what I'm getting at. No matter how close you get or how "personal" you feel, there's a line that never gets crossed. Is that line a date instead of an appointment? Is the donation what keeps the line in place?

BTW.. great engaging in the discussion with you.

The ideal gent shows up, drops the donation on the counter and walks out

Most gents know I have been with my SO for over 30 years and they know where that line is...and I do this of course for the nice life it gives me financially AND also for the excitement....I am a very sexually open minded kinda gal.

And yes Cr7 there are some times when that is what is about...but in my hobby career I found that when I connect with some of the gentI it makes for a more successful hobby life!

Good tipper, good hygiene, Respectful, respectable & someone I can enjoy as well. That's my ideal client

and Wyatt is sexy as hell....so he IS an ideal gent!! lol

Wyatt we need a revisit!!!

For me, it just happens. I can't explain it. There's something in the words he uses, the tone of his voice, etc. I just feel comfortable with him. He's usually the client I have to be careful with or I forget to screen him. (Actually happened one time in Southern Louisiana. Damn southern accents.)

Best clients are the ones who treat you like a friend .....But don't waste your time and always show for appointments. Clean And respectful is what I look forward to the most .

im a little late on this discussion but i was seeing a provider on a regular base type deal.The first night we met we discovered we grew up in the same little town of 200 people population.That started a comfort zone by the 3rd visit we went to the casino for a weekend. Next thing i know im staying at her house when i came back in town from work. To make this short i fell for her but after a year we had a falling out. brother its real hard to date someone in that line of work