Counting

Back in December I had an incident that struck me as weird. I go through the usual screening to see a new girl, actually get inside the room, lay the donation and most of the time a beverage or something on the counter or dresser and excuse myself to the bathroom. When I come back out this girl is standing there beside the items on the dresser. She then picks up the donation and counts it in front of me. This just seems weird to me, almost like she didn't trust me or something. Does anyone else think it is weird to have it counted in front of you like you are trying to short the lady out of 20 bucks or something? Does this happen very often? This was only the second time that I can remember, and just rubbed me wrong.

For the ladies does this ever actually happen to get shorted 20 or 40 bucks? Do you think it is proper to count the donation in front of the guy?

Curious to hear from both sides on this.

It has absolutely happened and with an eccie member.
However i never touch the donation until my friend leaves. I think it's rude to do that. And if they do short me, they just lose out on the chance of returning.
Their loss.

I have had a couple of backpage girs do that i just laughed it off.

I just think it depends on the girl. I had one ECCIE girl demand to count in front of me before we barely had chance to say hello. With other girls, the donation is an after thought. There have been even a few times when we both forget about the donation. There was one time where I had to run out and give it to the girl before she drove off.

I have never had a eccie or p411 girl do that to me. If I see a girl for the 1st time I always leave it so she can see it,But with the girls I see a lot they know I am good and most of the time it's not handled till after the visit.and they still don't count it they just put it up.

But with a BP girl I think that is the Norm.I have had a lot of them count it as soon as I lay it down. lol I always do a hour and I think that is odd for a lot of the BP girls. Most of them are always in a hurry. and in a hurry for me to get out of there. After they count it... I am a Smart Ass so ask is it's good ?? and when they say yes I act surprised lol

I have never had a eccie or p411 girl do that to me. If I see a girl for the 1st time I always leave it so she can see it,But with the girls I see a lot they know I am good and most of the time it's not handled till after the visit.and they still don't count it they just put it up.

But with a BP girl I think that is the Norm.I have had a lot of them count it as soon as I lay it down. lol I always do a hour and I think that is odd for a lot of the BP girls. Most of them are always in a hurry. and in a hurry for me to get out of there. After they count it... I am a Smart Ass so ask is it's good ?? and when they say yes I act surprised lol Originally Posted by Jjsunday

I expect that from a back page chick, the two times it happened to me were both ECCIE chicks. one I had seen several times and never had a problem, then bang. The other was a girl on tour.

I agree with you Saltydog71. I think its rude to do that. Most hobbyist know to put money in envelope and excuse yourself to bathroom to freshin up and by then the envelope gets counted and the festivities are about to begin. She might have been burned in the past and feels its better to be safe then sorry.

No big deal to me....business as usual. When someone pays me for my services in cash, I count it on the spot...it's just business. That being said, there's no need to be awkward about it or have a bad attitude either. That's a turn off and nobody wants that behind closed doors.