Anybody in Fetlife?

I've never heard of it before somebody mentioned it in the gang bang thread. Are there any members here that care to share what their experiences are with it?

Its for the BDSM/S&M lifestyle. Its not a dating/hookup site....more of a community.

Oh, it's definitely a dating/hookup site! Unfortunately, a lot of the people on there are whack jobs. You can find groups for your particular kink, just be careful about who you get involved with.

Yes please be very careful with such things sometimes you get more than you bargain for like that movie Tom and Nichole did before the divorce Eyes wide shut.
I have however heard of a club in the area that might be fun to visit. The name escapes me at the moment. More of a swingers club.

The Spott is the only swingers club I know of, but I've been out of that world for a bit.

let see the is the Spott. Gina's house party. Indulge in independence (house parties). A great one is out on I70 out in sweet springs, mo called Flavors. It is an adult theater/strip club during the day. But on Friday and Saturday nights it becomes a private lifestyle party. here are the details of it Hope to see you all there
Lifestyles party atmosphere with 5 play rooms, 2 hot tubs, a sauna, a pool table, 3 seating lounges, 5 personal theater rooms, a mini gym, Dungeon, a dance area, 4 play rooms, coed locker & shower room, dance area, snacks & drink mixers, DJ playing all the music you love, 10 private video booths, and last but not least a stripper pole with a stage for a GRAND total of 7500 square foot all under one roof.

Anyone who is non judgemental & respectful of others is encouraged to come on out!

We have friendly & helpful staff who are always able & more than willing to make you feel comfortable. Staff is here to answer any and all questions you may have and provide security for our awesome friends/members. We will even escort you to your car when you leave if you would like.

Donations ...

Couples $25.00

Singles

Men $40.00

Ladies $10.00

We have discounted rates for...

Poly couples

Triad groups

Service tops "BDSM"

Large groups

Just give us a call for rates.

Also for a limited time only

Bring 3 & get in free !!!! (call for details )

Our RULES are simple

Be respectful to others

No means NO

NO TOUCHING without asking

No people bashing "Others have feelings to

No Drugs, if caught you will be banned for life

No solicitation of sexual acts or prostitution(ie we do not sell pussy ! ) This will also get you banned for life

No under 21 drinking

If you are caught you & who supplied it will be banned for life.

Thank you. Idk about going alone however.

Well Crystal if you ever want to go let me know. I always offer rides to and from usually have one or 2 ladies that need a ride. No expectations. It is a blast even if you just hang out and talk and shoot pool. I usually shoot pool talk with friends I made there and hang out in the hot tub. get out and repeat the process all night long. and if I get luck great

Sounds interesting. I do enjoy a good hot tub and pool game.

Terry, I have started threads about wanting to try this. Are the people "quality" people? The majority? Could I just watch the first time? Prices are so cheap it may attract low lives. I need to choose one! Have u been to others? Maybe we could get a small group of us to meet up?

Yea you can watch. It is up to you. Actually there are alot of decent people there.

Terry, I have started threads about wanting to try this. Are the people "quality" people? The majority? Could I just watch the first time? Prices are so cheap it may attract low lives. I need to choose one! Have u been to others? Maybe we could get a small group of us to meet up? Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

Suz, I have been to Indulge in Indepndence it is a small house and the people who run it just seem like they want your money and could care less about making you feel welcome.

Flavors out on the highway is a huge 7000sf facility. the guy who hosts the parties is a great guy. he is a Dom who is there with his wife and a couple subs. They always interact with everyone there to make you feel welcome. I have met Dr's, nurses a lawyer, business owners, just everyday people who want to have fun there All body types. It is a very non judgmental place. parties start at 8pm on fridays and saturdays till 6 am this weekend is a pre valentines dance party theme is panties and topless. but most people will keep there clothes on. last Friday nite they had 120 people there and saturday was about 90 there were a bunch of couple, single females and single guys. A lot of exhibisionist go that just like to show off. So YES you can just go and watch. The first few time I ever went that is all I did was watch since I am a voyuer lol. Now I will participate with a couple or single lady if invited. Remember the # one rule there is NO means NO and Ask before you touch. Dont enter any room anyone is playing in unless you ask them firt if it is ok.
I have sent you a few PMs on going to swingers clubs before. If you would like to go PM me I will be going both Friday and Saturday nite if you would like a ride. I will not take you as an escort. But if you would like to go hang out and meet new people that would be honoured to take you or meet you there and show you around and introduce you too everyone.
If you are into BDSM they usually have some Dom and his sub doing something in the dungeun area. Me I am not really into that but I will stop and watch.
Let me know sometime
Terry

there are a lot of places around The Spott is over off of Truman or 23rd street and 435 on television hill. It is just a lifestyle dance club. Mostly couples. nothing happens on premises.
Gina's huse party is just hat a house party out in I believe Belton. They host that once or twice a month. It is a large house was told it was a pretty good amount of people but I kind of think it is invite only but not sure

Of course Indulge is in Independence off of Lees summit rd but it is a small house. the people that go are a good bunch. it is just the owners dont seem friendly.

There is the Red Door. It is located down off 435 and staduim drive. I have not been there. I was toldthey have a pretty good croud but they have a large bi and gay crowd there.

There is club KC. not sure were there are in KCMO never been dont know anything about them.

The Bump and Grind is a Bar take over. They reserve a bar and you go and meet people. it is also an off premises place meaning you meet someone you go to the motel. They usually have special rates set up for club guest with the hotel they are near.

The Fantasy Lounge is also in KCMO area. You also need to know someone, or be invited, or have attended other parties to go here.

In KCK there is the all in club house. Ever Wed nite from 6pm till 2-3am is a gang bang party. ton of guys a few girls. Went once and just watched.

And then there is Flavors it is out in Sweet Springs MO. it is a long drive depending on where you come from. I lve in blue springs so it is only 40 miles for me. That is why I usually post on there FB page offerin rides. I usually have one or two girls that need a ride out there and back.