He took advantage of me on a jetski in the middle of the ocean

True story. I was in Ocho Rios Jamaica 1 year ago with friends for a fun filled vacation. When I first got to the beach on the 1st or 2nd day, the lifeguard was on me like white on rice. He was hanging around me like he didn't have a care in the world. I was in the water, and this fella comes in to swim and socialize with me.

I looked around, and noticed all the little kids of all different ages, who were now unsupervised because the lifeguard would rather flirt with me, then do his job. But all well. I was in a different country, and island perspectives are different then Americas.

Thru out the course of the vacation, the lifeguard and I would chit chat. I even took some photos of him, as memories. Now, I'm not a heavy drinker, my preference in alcohol runs more towards wine then liquors. It was the second to last day there, and I decided to get wasted. I went to the bar and gave the bartender a tip (all-inclusive resort mind you) and he used the premium vodka. One after the other, I downed shots of vodka with a touch of cranberry juice. It tasted so good. The shots went down like water. I NEVER tasted vodka so good, I wonder what brand it was. Moving on......

By the time I was done binge drinking, I may have downed I think 10-11 shots within 30-40 minutes. I felt great, I felt awesome. It was only noon time, maybe 12:30. I decided to go out to the beach. I'm walking down by the ocean, there are kids, happy couples, families swimming about and then I bumped into the Lifeguard. He was chit chatting with the gay man who rents jet skis. Lifeguard asks me if I want to go for a ride on the jetski, 100% on him. They tend to run $50 for 30 minutes so I thought this freebie was a real treat

He clearly saw how messed up I was. He put on my life jacket. I couldn't do it I couldn't even feel my arms. He tells me to drive the jet ski.
I said: "I don't think I should."
He said: Don't worry Mon you can't get a DWI in the ocean. It's not like your going to hit anything.

Good point.
So I drive the thing and apparently I'm going slow. He said, faster, faster go faster. I turned around, the buildings were getting smaller and smaller. He told me to quit turning around. I told him I can't go fast, I was too scared because I couldn't feel my arms.

So he said he would drive. We change positions and he goes way out in the ocean. The waves were really big out there. I turned around and there were no signs of the buildings. We were completely surrounded by water. It was odd. I think I felt scared, but i was too drunk to care. Do you know what I mean? The alcohol was dulling my fear.

I felt myself starting to pass out a little. My eyelids were so heavy. He pulled down his pants and put a condom on. He removed my bottom suit and as he did so, I fell into the water. I remember being afraid of sharks. But whatever, I got back on the jetski and lied there.

Oddly, I was very relaxed. He put his small dong in me and it felt like a finger, very small. I have never had such a non invasive penis in my life. Finally, after 2 minutes, he finishes and takes the condom off his dong. He throws it in the ocean and sais "something for the fish to eat."
GROSS.

He takes me back to shore and I collapse on one of the beach chairs. I fall alseep for a few hours under the hot sun and wake up with the reddest burnt skin I have ever had in my life. I wonder if what just happened was a dream, but quickly realize upon my sobriety that it isn't. I do not tell my friends tho. Actually, I wasn't even fazed or bothered by it. Yet.

That evening I thought about what happened. It semi-bothered me, but again, not overly so. It was more imbarrasing then anything. I just wanted to forget about it.

On our last day there, we decided to go to a spa to get a massage. We were waiting for a taxi, and talking about how awesome the massage would feel. A young lady from Chicago heard us chatting. She apologized for interupting but she asked if we were going to XXX spa. We told her no, that wasn't the one, but why?? What happened at XXX spa??

She said that while she was on her stomach getting a massage by a man, he stuck his finger between her legs and in her vagina. She screamed and ran out. She said that incident really put a damper on her vacation. I could see she wasn't lying, and the poor girl was visibly upset and shaken by the finger incident. Then I thought, she is so upset over a finger? What about what happened to me???

I was taken out in the ocean, completely drunk, and screwed on the jet ski. Just then, I started to get mad. I get back home, and I considered the trip a success. Even tho the jet ski thing happened. I mean, being an escort, you have thick skin. And I realized just how much us escorts develop a thick skin in life. I'm sorry to say this, but it's makes you stronger in ways. That girl from Chicago was devestated by a finger.

However, as the weeks and months passed I considered taking action. No, not pressing charges. Just filing a report. But I never did. I chalked it up to a life experience.

Has anyone ever been taken advantage of while on vacation?

ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
Yes. Many times. And once, also, in Jamaica. (It was a very long time ago, though!) Generally it was always good. But once or twice, not so much.

Heavy drinking, strangers and foreign places, especially when one has a bit of a wild streak, often makes for unusual experiences.

Sounds like you were lucky.
Theres just something about Jamaica. Lots of people end up with some type of issue when going there.
pyramider's Avatar
Either put our or go swimming . . .
All the way through I was waiting for the punchline. That was a pretty crappy and scary situation for you. You were lucky that he brought you back to shore.
Just a question: which one of these did the jet ski look like?
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Bobave's Avatar
You spent your whole vacation flirting with that lifeguard (even taking pics of him), then just before you leave you get drunk in the middle of the day and go looking for that lifeguard. You get on a jet ski with him and go way out away from everybody else... and he TOOK ADVANTAGE of you? What exactly was he taking advantage of, your willing complicity? Oh wait, you were drunk... the get out of jail free card for women who want to excuse doing what they want to do.

You wanted to screw the lifeguard, fine. You're a big girl, and make your own decisions. But don't hand us BS about how he took advantage of you.
Naomi4u's Avatar
You spent your whole vacation flirting with that lifeguard (even taking pics of him), then just before you leave you get drunk in the middle of the day and go looking for that lifeguard. You get on a jet ski with him and go way out away from everybody else... and he TOOK ADVANTAGE of you? What exactly was he taking advantage of, your willing complicity? Oh wait, you were drunk... the get out of jail free card for women who want to excuse doing what they want to do.

You wanted to screw the lifeguard, fine. You're a big girl, and make your own decisions. But don't hand us BS about how he took advantage of you. Originally Posted by Bobave
Charles, it looked like the one in the left pic.....
No, truthfully, I did not want to screw the life guard. Yeah I did flirt with him on my vacation. All I wanted was a free ride on the jet ski because they cost $50-80 to rent. I had no idea he was going to try to screw me, the middle of the ocean on a jet ski is the LAST place I would think you would take a girl to screw her. On a boat yeah, not a jet ski.
And because it was only noon and he was an on duty lifeguard, I thought he was ok. If I had a choice, I had my eye on the bell boy. And the life guard was flirting with me. Don't worry I learned my lesson. I am not devestated or whatever. It pissed me off, sure, but such is life. The girl who got fingered at the massage parlor was devestated. Not me.
Bobave's Avatar
I had no idea he was going to try to screw me. Originally Posted by incognito isis
hahahahahaha.. oh my... thank you, I truly got a laugh out of that. I'm really not trying to be mean, I just think this pretense is amusing.
10-11 shots in 30 mins? How big are you exactly?
Isis,

I know this didn't happen but you said you were drunk. What if the guy didn't use a condom? Would you have been upset then? The fact that he had a condom on him, he already knew you were an easy target I bet. You should have prob filed a report or who know what or who else this guy would try it with and what the results would be?
burkalini's Avatar
I am absolutely not making light of your situation as anyone that takes advantage of someone inebriated is a slime but it does remind of a joke. The blonde says shes not drinking Bud anymore because everytime she drinks it she wakes up and her pussy hurts. OK I am sick bastard. You just need to laugh every now and then
You spent your whole vacation flirting with that lifeguard (even taking pics of him), then just before you leave you get drunk in the middle of the day and go looking for that lifeguard. You get on a jet ski with him and go way out away from everybody else... and he TOOK ADVANTAGE of you? What exactly was he taking advantage of, your willing complicity? Oh wait, you were drunk... the get out of jail free card for women who want to excuse doing what they want to do.

You wanted to screw the lifeguard, fine. You're a big girl, and make your own decisions. But don't hand us BS about how he took advantage of you. Originally Posted by Bobave
I totally agree with you, Bobave. OP has already admitted in past posts that she has a habit of always lying so why would this time be any different?
Silly Girl, I swear it was 10 shots. I remember counting them and being surprised at how it went down like water. But maybe it was watered down alcohol? Thats what they do at these all inclusive resorts, they water the liquor down to save money. The shots tasted like water, not like that powerful punch you get when you have a shot of Jack Daniels. I counted 10 maybe 11 shots. So if it was watered down, plus it had a touch of cranberry juice, maybe that equals 6 shots? I am 130 pounds and 5'7" I don't know a size 5 or 6 it depends on the store. Some stores I'm an XXS.

It was around 10/11 shots. How I was able to do so many in less than an hour, I don't know. We can speculate the liquor being watered maybe. Remember, I started to pass out. I was numb all over. I passed out on the beach and got burned under the sun.

Rabbit, I know he had a condom on because I saw him put it on and when he was done he took it off his dong and threw it in the water. And then made the remark "something for the fish to eat." That was a disgusting thing to say I remember. I looked at the floating condom in the water. And to answer your question: HELL YEAH I WOULD HAVE BEEN PISSED OFF IF HE DIDN'T USE A CONDOM. Actually, it's hard to say what I would have done since I was drunk out of my mind, but if he tried to touch me w/o condom I may have tried to fight him. And then, he may have left me out there. Who know what kinda Yurin Vandersloot weirdos are out there who prey on tourists.

Your right, he had me pegged as a target. Thats why he had the condom on me. Like a hunter to it's prey, he was waiting for the right time to attack.