References

I do not give references for gents i hvnt seen in the past 6months. Sorry too much can change so im not comfortable. I am very reference friendly so if you dont get a response for a ref request its either been to long or i hv never seen the gent.

Your business so do it your way but might I suggest, if someone contacts you for a red and you have not seen him or you saw him over 6 months ago, contact the provider and just tell her truth, "never seen him" or "saw him last year, but will not vouch for him as it is over 6 months." Just saying

This is probably my fault.... when I'm asked for references I usually list as many as I can remember or providers that were very memorable. I didn't know that some providers have a time limit on references. I was corrected, my apologies I didn't know the protocol. But Gentlemantoo does have a good point. I'm sorry cashmerelove!

This is probably my fault.... when I'm asked for references I usually list as many as I can remember or providers that were very memorable. I didn't know that some providers have a time limit on references. I was corrected, my apologies I didn't know the protocol. But Gentlemantoo does have a good point. I'm sorry cashmerelove! Originally Posted by munkycrank

Lol..this actually wasnt you
Thx tho

This is probably best for newbies, but it's a good habit to get into to ask a lady if you can use her for a reference before you leave the session. That way she's more likely to respond to a reference request later from another lady.

Agree with CM for sure, and, imo, cannot hurt to let a lady know you plan to offer her as a reference.

I can see Cashmere's point, and,

Per the Meet & Greet vouching protocol ever since 2004, references must be from within the past 90 days.