Tips on communicating with a lady......

Just a few tips.....

Do......
When contacting a lady to make an appointment please give as much information as possible in your first PM, email, txt, phone call.... Your name, your references, or inform lady you have no references at this time, an idea of when you want to see her and a little about you and what your expectations are.

Do Not.....
Contact a lady and only say....
"Hello"
"You are beautiful, we should meet"
"Are you available?"
"I want to meet you"
"Hi, this is John/Mike/Bob.... remember me?
My all time favorite ... "I am young and good looking, do you offer a special rate?" YES, I do, add an extra 100$ for having to lower your ego and teach you how to properly satisfy a woman!

That's all folks!

Besos,
Francisca

"Hot Blooded Spaniard," indeed. LOL. How you put up with us has always amazed me.

Lol so accurate!

Hello Miss,
My name is Jay, I have references with Melanie sky, kristi grey, Megan heart, and Jennifer spinner.
I appreciate your communication tips. Sometimes, at least for me, there have been times I didn't know I was being a jerk. If it wasn't for someone telling me, I would have lost an opportunity for change.
I enjoy role playing, being humiliated, mind games, dominated in different ways.I like having to lower my ego and being told I'm a nobody.
I'm in my Mid thirties and still learning how to be more of a gentleman. I try to be very giving affectionately, of course I will never be as good as I want.
Maybe you can help.
Thanks for the post

How about cock pics?

Sticky?

Hello Miss,
My name is Jay, I have references with Melanie sky, kristi grey, Megan heart, and Jennifer spinner.
I appreciate your communication tips. Sometimes, at least for me, there have been times I didn't know I was being a jerk. If it wasn't for someone telling me, I would have lost an opportunity for change.
I enjoy role playing, being humiliated, mind games, dominated in different ways.I like having to lower my ego and being told I'm a nobody.
I'm in my Mid thirties and still learning how to be more of a gentleman. I try to be very giving affectionately, of course I will never be as good as I want.
Maybe you can help.
Thanks for the post Originally Posted by Jigga Man

I'm smiling right now cuz me thinks you were being an asshole

I like a lady who reminds me I'm nothing special Originally Posted by Jigga Man

Well, I am not the lady for you.

. Hello Miss,
My name is Jay, I have references with Melanie sky, kristi grey, Megan heart, and Jennifer spinner. Good taste in women

I appreciate your communication tips. Thank you

Sometimes, at least for me, there have been times I didn't know I was being a jerk. If it wasn't for someone telling me, I would have lost an opportunity for change. Happens to the best of us

I enjoy role playing, Me too
being humiliated, mind games, Sorry, not my thing
dominated in different ways. I enjoy light domination
OI like having to lower my ego and being told I'm a nobody. I am not comfortable with that
I'm in my Mid thirties and still learning how to be more of a gentleman. That is wonderful! I think we all learn everyday of our lives to be more....
I try to be very giving affectionately, of course I will never be as good as I want.
Maybe you can help.
Thanks for the post Originally Posted by Jigga Man

I truly wish I was capable of helping you, but unfortunately, spending time with me would make you feel the complete opposite of what you described.

TucoSalamanca.... How could I forget the cock pics! NO, NO, NO,!!!!!
A nice, complimentary, informative note, with an everyday pic of yourself, YES.

Cover Me.... You are my Sancho!! Putting up with you is my pleasure!! Also, I have invested 4yrs in teaching you how to make love to me..... Not about to let you go now!!!

Rogue...Maybe all the ladies could get together a list of general dos and donts and have a sticky.
Seriously, I truly think it would be helpful to all. Newbies, both hobbyists and ladies would have some guidance on what to do and what to expect.

Hedonisticfool.... He might be serious and jacking off as we speak to you calling him an asshole
Besos,
Francisca

"Hot Blooded Spaniard," indeed. LOL. How you put up with us has always amazed me. Originally Posted by CoverMe

No shortage of brown-nosing from you, sir!

No shortage of brown-nosing from you, sir! Originally Posted by HedonisticFool

And I'm really good at it.

Hedonistic..... First, let me say I enjoyed you Bcd, and wished we would of had a little more time to talk, to get to know you a little better.
Now, that being said.... You have your opinion about this hobby. You participate on the board and you partake in what satisfies your needs bcd.

Everybody is not you!
Your reasons for being in this hobby should be respected, and you should also respect the preferences of others.

I NEVER have to put up with anyone. Once a donation is on the table, I can also return it to your pocket and ask you to leave.
I decide what is included during the time you are visiting me.

DicHoliday pre-booked 6 appointments during my last trip. That's a nice little sum of $ basically secured. When traveling, pre-booked dates make a big difference. Gave him 2 chances, and he was out.

I sure as heck do not have to put up with or need to see anyone I do not enjoy.

Many of us in this hobby want, need and become more than just a business transaction. We become friends. As in any business where you deal with people, friendships develop. The guys at the corner store I frequent when in SA have become my friends. They don't know me outside of the store, but they remember me when I come in and we chat for a few minutes about life in Spain, soccer, politics.... same with my hairdresser, same at Starbucks, same at the nail salon......

I have known Cover me for 4yrs. I have spent bcd time with him over 100 times, and we have become not just friends in the hobby but in our personal life as well.

CM is one example.... I have known drgnfly7 for 15yrs, we are good friends in/out of the hobby,
I had a client visit me in Spain last November. He stayed at my house and No Hobby Activities took place. Francisca does not exist in my real life, and he respected that. When I come to SA and see him at my incal....I fuck his brains out!

Majority of the gentlemen I see I have known for many many years, so regardless of what you or some may think, I honestly do care about these men.

I don't see them as just clients or just another $, and I know, because they have demonstrated it to me, that they also care about me as a person, not just a provider bcd.

You, me, coverme...we are all a little little speck in this huge world we call the hobby.

I think your a cool guy, but you come across as a very negative, kinda sad person. Open your mind, try new things, explore the endless possibilities in this hobby, smile and enjoy!

Besos,
Francisca

Let's see how long it takes for CoverMe to post you a high-five

Let's see how long it takes for CoverMe to post you a high-five Originally Posted by HedonisticFool

Why?

Does it bother you that he supports me? If so, why?

Do you not like me?

As I said previously, in your posts, you sound negative about life; glass always half empty... You probably don't care, but after meeting you, I saw a nice guy, very different than what you portray here.

Besos,
Francisca

Let's see how long it takes for CoverMe to post you a high-five Originally Posted by HedonisticFool

Francisca has plenty of very enthusiastic high-fives already from very established gents. She doesn't need (but always appreciates) another one from me.

You would do your hobby cred a big favor by getting on her "High Five" list, as well. It sounds like you're halfway there. Just stop framing your posts in negative tones and you might see a nice turnaround in the responses you get from the ladies.

Plz don't get so worked up. I make an observation and post if I'm interested. Respectfully, you started a post, that suggests a "lady", as you quoted, should be communicated with certain do's and don'ts. Well darling, you are not every provider. I will respect your rules and regulations, but for all it does not apply. Providers post their needs in their showcase or snatch post, and mongers comply. I often ignore and text first with a hi bby, or hello gorgeous, or hola sexy and often can bypass the credit and background check.

I'm not being negative or am I kinda sad. I'm having fun and spare no expense. I welcome getting ripped on. I respect your opinion as I do all others but plz keep in mind, opinions are like assholes...everyone has one. Spread it wide and share it with the public, be prepared for some who will turn away, and others that want to criticize it, or poke at it, or fuck it over.

Plz just keep in mind, I'm a smart ass, but it doesn't mean that I'm hating on anyone. You are correct, the guy you met is cool and nice. Babe, you are just taking my posts way too seriously.

And, absolutely fucking YES to the trillionth power, I like you!



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Hedonistic..... First, let me say I enjoyed you Bcd, and wished we would of had a little more time to talk, to get to know you a little better.
Now, that being said.... You have your opinion about this hobby. You participate on the board and you partake in what satisfies your needs bcd.

Everybody is not you!
Your reasons for being in this hobby should be respected, and you should also respect the preferences of others.

I NEVER have to put up with anyone. Once a donation is on the table, I can also return it to your pocket and ask you to leave.
I decide what is included during the time you are visiting me.

DicHoliday pre-booked 6 appointments during my last trip. That's a nice little sum of $ basically secured. When traveling, pre-booked dates make a big difference. Gave him 2 chances, and he was out.

I sure as heck do not have to put up with or need to see anyone I do not enjoy.

Many of us in this hobby want, need and become more than just a business transaction. We become friends. As in any business where you deal with people, friendships develop. The guys at the corner store I frequent when in SA have become my friends. They don't know me outside of the store, but they remember me when I come in and we chat for a few minutes about life in Spain, soccer, politics.... same with my hairdresser, same at Starbucks, same at the nail salon......

I have known Cover me for 4yrs. I have spent bcd time with him over 100 times, and we have become not just friends in the hobby but in our personal life as well.

CM is one example.... I have known drgnfly7 for 15yrs, we are good friends in/out of the hobby,
I had a client visit me in Spain last November. He stayed at my house and No Hobby Activities took place. Francisca does not exist in my real life, and he respected that. When I come to SA and see him at my incal....I fuck his brains out!

Majority of the gentlemen I see I have known for many many years, so regardless of what you or some may think, I honestly do care about these men.

I don't see them as just clients or just another $, and I know, because they have demonstrated it to me, that they also care about me as a person, not just a provider bcd.

You, me, coverme...we are all a little little speck in this huge world we call the hobby.

I think your a cool guy, but you come across as a very negative, kinda sad person. Open your mind, try new things, explore the endless possibilities in this hobby, smile and enjoy!

Besos,
Francisca Originally Posted by Ms Francisca