Not sure who I'd go to with this....

So I'm not exactly who I can go to about another provider spreading lies about me. At first I brushed it off because it's not true and I figured if I didn't feed into the other providers drama she'd just stop. Well she hasn't and it's honestly starting to bug me now. I thought the hobby would be safe and fun and at first it was but this certain provider won't just stop the rumors and it's making me just want to get off the board. I hate drama and immaturity. I just want the lies to stop and not quite sure how to go about all this. I'm a great and safe provider I love what I do and making you fellas happy. With this whole situation it makes me wanna stay clear of all the other providers even though I thought it would be cool to be friends with other providers after all we are all here doing the same thing but I suppose I was very wrong....
SugarLove055's Avatar
The hobby is not safe.

But as far as advice or suggested advice on your course of action I would simply say ignore it. People are always going to talk and at the end of the day you are responsible for your reputation and nobody else can change that.

I hope the hobby find you blessed and I send you positive energy!
I appreciate that sugar. same to you. Hopefully she she stop making these false accusations and stop writing threads about me and telling the hobbiest all this stuff. I was assuming getting into this it would be safe. But you're absolutely right it's far from that...
hardroad69's Avatar
Let it go Msd, your reputation is good and solid. It is hers that will suffer. Stay strong and beautiful.
Hephaestus's Avatar
Haters gonna hate, pop your collar and do your thing.
Groovy Johnson's Avatar
She has no cred.No evidence.
She's harming her own self,not you.
And,yes,ignore her.
Ain't no use in debate.You'll get nowhere trying to reason with her.
Gj
Zena's Avatar
  • Zena
  • 05-02-2017, 06:34 PM
Ms. Delish, You are a WONDERFUL GIRL, and a great provider! Your reviews are good, and that speaks volumes! I'm happy to call you my friend!
Jennatx's Avatar
I will end this now she referring to me I already called you and we spoke and I forgot about it. I am not talking to anyone about you. I know you personally so really just let it go. Whoever telling you I am still talking is lying.
Let's agree to disagree. Mod can you please close this thread.
Well I wasn't going to throw you under the bus Jenna. No we are not agreeing to disagree. I wasn't wrong, you were. You shouldn't try to ruin someone's reputation with false accusations. Especially stating that I'm an "unsafe provider" because you read the ROS on my reviews (which are none or your business) and stating that one of my clients said we did a BBFS. I cannot read any of my ROS but I have faith and trust that none of my clients would never make something up on a session. My clients and I have been nothing but safe and truth of the matter no one has ever even asked me to do BB. I don't know where you came up with all this in your head but it's serious just straight out BSC.
Let it go Msd, your reputation is good and solid. It is hers that will suffer. Stay strong and beautiful. Originally Posted by hardroad69
Thank you very much hardroad ! I will definitely do that
Haters gonna hate, pop your collar and do your thing. Originally Posted by Hephaestus
Thanks heph I definitely will ...
She has no cred.No evidence.
She's harming her own self,not you.
And,yes,ignore her.
Ain't no use in debate.You'll get nowhere trying to reason with her.
Gj Originally Posted by Groovy Johnson
Well I definitely am done with this conversation. I feel like I had to defend myself maybe she will just shut her mouth after this and mind her own business and stop looking at my reviews and worry about herself and not others.
Ms. Delish, You are a WONDERFUL GIRL, and a great provider! Your reviews are good, and that speaks volumes! I'm happy to call you my friend! Originally Posted by Zena
Thank you zena you are so sweet and have been so kind ! I appreciate it lovely.
Jennatx's Avatar
I never read Ros I can't. Whatever bless your heart positive vibes