clients in 18-21 age group

tornado82's Avatar
Providers, what are your experiences with seeing them? How do you feel about seeing guys in that age group? How often do you get clients that young?
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I have not had any clients under 21. The youngest clients I have seen were 22-24. It has been rare though...I've maybe gotten a handful of inquiries in that age group in the past year.

I felt a little hesitant to see them because of the age difference. I suppose it made me feel like a "cougar."

However, I saw them. They all complied with screening and were polite and respectful--which is ultimately how I decide if I'm going to see someone. We had a great time!
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When I retired the first time and lived in Houston during the ASPD days we had a fellow hobbyist who was 22, inherited family money and wanted nothing to do with a real girlfriend.

Took awhile but he finally was able to get in with the providers.
A lot of guys that young are more respectful than some older men and vise versa....

The problem with seeing guys who are that young, are the same as serving them alcohol. They have to be carded, or you could be in big trouble!!

I prefer the 29 and older crowd. The ones with their shit together, and who have good work ethic, and are clean and neat in their appearance.
However there are some young people who just love to wear name brand clothes who look like they haven't touched a razor nor a bar of soap in ages......Ewww.

Usually when men reach 30 they start thinking about more mature things, and they seem to have a better handle on life.
I suppose it all goes back to how you were raised.

M.M.
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If I had known that escorts existed back when I was a horny college freshman, I probably would've been a lot more active then than I am now.
If I had known that escorts existed back when I was a horny college freshman, I probably would've been a lot more active then than I am now. Originally Posted by tornado82
I agree with that statement lol. I was 24 when I came across aspd back in the day. I finally convinced cricket of houston after screening and a face to face at the bar.
I don't think anyone that young, male or female, should be involved in the hobby. Not enough mental or emotional stability at that point. Too much room for long term damage and developing unrealistic expectations for civie relationships.
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  • 05-18-2017, 06:19 PM
I don't think anyone that young, male or female, should be involved in the hobby. Not enough mental or emotional stability at that point. Too much room for long term damage and developing unrealistic expectations for civie relationships. Originally Posted by OldGent
Nah a lot of guys that age are considering viagra bc they're sexually exhausted from watching too much porn. They'd be better off giving that fuckery up and paying an escort. Sometimes sluts can teach a young man a good lifelong lesson. Hell I learned mine when I was 13 on bourbon street. I remember it was the first time I saw some real titties and a guy told me that I'll be paying good money for those one day. Was he never lying either.
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Providers, what are your experiences with seeing them? How do you feel about seeing guys in that age group? How often do you get clients that young? Originally Posted by tornado82
Have you actually seen anyone yet? You were asking questions a year ago...
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Clients tend to see ladies/sugarbabies in that same age group. Chicks got hella snapback and are very impressionable and more humble financially than a provider might be. For mature men young thot pockets are easy prey.

I think guys that young as clients are just as impressionable but are probably more prone to be attracted to providers or catch feelings quickly than most clients would.

But on the same token we all need experiemce when we are young. Why not get your experience from a trained professional.That way theres less milage on your main chick atremptingntobtry new things......
I used to exclude younger men thinking​ they were poorly behaved or immature. Not so.
I have had a few clients in that age range. I was surprised the first time it happened, as it's not usual for me, but that was the whole of my reaction that differed from having meeting requests from clients any other age. They passed my screening and were as respectful as I'd expect any client to be.

I don't mind at all being the "cougar," and to be honest I'd rather they learn a thing or two from me than from a girl around the same age who has less experience, both in sex and in life.
Can't do it. Feels like one of my kids friends are calling me.
This is an interesting question. I myself have never been with a provider but I see it in the future, and the reason is probably part of the answer as to why there are not many clients in that age range.

I am much more comfortable with myself now and I like women a lot more, having much more experience.

That may sound crazy (what straight young man isn't thinking about women constantly?). I was, but thinking about them is not the same as liking them. A lot of times you are thinking about your status with regard to your male social circle, and the girl is part of that jockeying for position. Is she pretty enough? What does having her as a date communicate about me?

Then there is overvaluing one's own position in her life. Like, then I thought you couldn't just fuck her because certainly she wants more than just me fucking her and I am not "ready" for that. Me Now to Me Then: sometimes she just wants that and, you know, even if she wants more she might not want it from the likes of you, so get over yourself and fuck her, idiot.

I like the idea of a provider now in ways I couldn't then because it is a completely candid relationship (you want to spend some time with a cool female and she is okay with providing that experience), but at the time I wasn't even candid with myself and couldn't possibly be with anyone else, although I didn't know it.

Great question.
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I was 18 my first time. Walked into a club in Paris and pretty French lady asked if I wanted to go upstairs. I just went with it. Great memory, and I am better off because of the experience.