The benefits of sex with older woman

,The Benefits of Sex With an Older Woman

In general, it isn’t socially acceptable to be a woman who has had numerous lovers. However, by the time many sexually adventurous women hit 35, they've not only have several notches on the headboard, they have experienced several sexual situations. Like anything in life, the more experience you have at something, the more proficient you become.

Through the years an active woman has often experienced penises of varying size, shape and rigidity. She has experienced a verity of odd ball fetishes. She has been the teacher as well as the student. Think of it in terms of baseball. When a boy gets a new glove does he take to the diamond with the glove straight out of the package. No, he oils it up, messages it, plays countless hours of catch until the glove is ready for “prime time”. The new glove is beautiful without imperfection; however, the experienced glove is ready for the game.

Regardless of your age here are some examples of why an older lover may be right for you…


She takes charge
Normally when a woman reaches her mid-thirties she knows what flicks her switch. She has also become proficient at reading the signals a man is flashing. This makes her a huge turn on for men of all ages. Plenty of women (not me) still lie back and expect the guy to do all the work. If she takes the lead and becomes the sexual aggressor, it’s an automatic penis-pumper.

She takes her time
Let’s be honest in the right hands most men can be brought to the brink of orgasm rather quickly while a woman needs more time to get to the finish line. There is nothing wrong with that, it’s just the biological truth. Older women understand this and know how to slow down the situation so all involved reach the heights of pleasure closer to the end of the date rather than the beginning. Besides the release is always better when your tachometer has been running over 5000 RPM for a while vs. when you first hit the throttle.

She responds
A woman who has reached her sexual peak understand how the little thing make all the difference. One of those little (HUGE) things is responsiveness. It’s simple, men love to touch women and when a woman responds favorably to that touch, it blows that man’s mind. I will agree that there is nothing quite like the perfect skin of a young woman, but the uncontrolled quiver of a woman with a few more miles on her can be so much sexier.

She is confident
A confident lover is always in demand - no matter what she looks like.
In fact, plenty of therapists say it’s an older woman’s sexual confidence which is at the heart of her appeal to younger men.

She’s not scared to give directions
The biggest lesson women learn as they travel the highway of their sex life is “If you don’t ask for it you probably won’t get it”. Often a younger woman won’t tell her lover what she wants because she thinks it may turn him off. Or even worse she expects him to magically glean what her desires may be. What an unrealistic expectation, right? An older woman will do no such thing. She will tell you exactly what she likes and will in turn ask what gets you going as well.

We are all drawn to certain things. No one can blame you if you are not into women who have passed thirty. One piece of advice, if you haven’t tried an older woman do so soon. You might be surprised how much you like her…

+1!!!!!

I don't see providers under 40 anymore.... too much drama, too much faking, too much attention on the cell phone and not on me, plus, what can be sexier than a lady saying to you (after having a big O), "God, I've needed that for a long time!!!"

... Works better than Viagra, Levitra, or Cialis for me....

...just sayin'.

Have to agree with all points. Was always attracted to older women, even as a young man. Now that I am older they still light me up more than any other type.

If she's gone through menopause and the rubber breaks, you're good to go.

Well said, loverlove17. By the way, my "glove" is in excellent condition.

Meow!

completely concur!!😁😁

No glove, no love...

Well said, loverlove17. By the way, my "glove" is in excellent condition.

Meow! Originally Posted by jillyclaire

Looking forward to finding out!

Mmmmm Jilly has an awesome glove...been there/done that/wanna do it again!

as the "old lady" of the board,I can say that I have a very fun & active sex life...and never a shortage of business!! I can still rock it at 54!

Wow I just saw this post...I am all to excited not to comment..lol I just love men who are into us older ladies. (I'm 49)........

Stella Has gotten her groove back many times over. My body still rocks, and even more so since the weight loss.
Physically and emotionally I am in the prime of my life. When I have an Orgasm, I cannot fake it, it just happens..lol

I love to take charge and I am not afraid to tell a man just what I want and need in the bedroom.



M.M.

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Wow I just saw this post...I am all to excited not to comment..lol I just love men who are into us older ladies. (I'm 49)........

Stella Has gotten her groove back many times over. My body still rocks, and even more so since the weight loss.
Physically and emotionally I am in the prime of my life. When I have an Orgasm, I cannot fake it, it just happens..lol

I love to take charge and I am not afraid to tell a man just what I want and need in the bedroom.



M.M. Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

you go girl.

I'm not sure if this is from a blog post she wrote, but River Song also offered up some awesome insights on this topic.

The Benefits of Sex With an Older Woman

In general, it isn’t socially acceptable to be a woman who has had numerous lovers. However, by the time many sexually adventurous women hit 35, they've not only have several notches on the headboard, they have experienced several sexual situations. Like anything in life, the more experience you have at something, the more proficient you become.

Through the years an active woman has often experienced penises of varying size, shape and rigidity. She has experienced a verity of odd ball fetishes. She has been the teacher as well as the student. Think of it in terms of baseball. When a boy gets a new glove does he take to the diamond with the glove straight out of the package. No, he oils it up, messages it, plays countless hours of catch until the glove is ready for “prime time”. The new glove is beautiful without imperfection; however, the experienced glove is ready for the game.

Regardless of your age here are some examples of why an older lover may be right for you…


She takes charge
Normally when a woman reaches her mid-thirties she knows what flicks her switch. She has also become proficient at reading the signals a man is flashing. This makes her a huge turn on for men of all ages. Plenty of women (not me) still lie back and expect the guy to do all the work. If she takes the lead and becomes the sexual aggressor, it’s an automatic penis-pumper.

She takes her time
Let’s be honest in the right hands most men can be brought to the brink of orgasm rather quickly while a woman needs more time to get to the finish line. There is nothing wrong with that, it’s just the biological truth. Older women understand this and know how to slow down the situation so all involved reach the heights of pleasure closer to the end of the date rather than the beginning. Besides the release is always better when your tachometer has been running over 5000 RPM for a while vs. when you first hit the throttle.

She responds
A woman who has reached her sexual peak understand how the little thing make all the difference. One of those little (HUGE) things is responsiveness. It’s simple, men love to touch women and when a woman responds favorably to that touch, it blows that man’s mind. I will agree that there is nothing quite like the perfect skin of a young woman, but the uncontrolled quiver of a woman with a few more miles on her can be so much sexier.

She is confident
A confident lover is always in demand - no matter what she looks like.
In fact, plenty of therapists say it’s an older woman’s sexual confidence which is at the heart of her appeal to younger men.

She’s not scared to give directions
The biggest lesson women learn as they travel the highway of their sex life is “If you don’t ask for it you probably won’t get it”. Often a younger woman won’t tell her lover what she wants because she thinks it may turn him off. Or even worse she expects him to magically glean what her desires may be. What an unrealistic expectation, right? An older woman will do no such thing. She will tell you exactly what she likes and will in turn ask what gets you going as well.

We are all drawn to certain things. No one can blame you if you are not into women who have passed thirty. One piece of advice, if you haven’t tried an older woman do so soon. You might be surprised how much you like her… Originally Posted by River Song