Before sex (or anytime, really), I like to both give and get massages. I'm naturally attracted towards ladies who are naturally top heavy or curvy, so I find my massages really help them relax by stretching the long back muscles and relieving tension from the shoulders.
My go-to oil tends to be coconut oil as this doesn't get sticky or dry out for a long time. However, I had a really bad experience where my ex was allergic to it and didn't let me know about this beforehand since she thought all massage oils were silicone based. The aftermath was she didn't speak to me for the next 3 days while she couldn't sleep on her back
So a few questions for all -
What are your preferences of massage oils?
Do you even prefer massage oils, or do you prefer your backrubs dry?
Have you ever doubled a massage oil for a greek lubricant? If so, how well does that work?