PSE? GFE? Etc...

What do you think and expect when you think of GFE and PSE? Today I was told PSE meant bareback and Greek. If that's what the majority see it as then oh my am I way off on my advertising. I took PSE as being very sexual, open minded, dirty talk, kinky, etc. GFE as kissing, bbbj, and not rushed.

I'm really curious to see what others think BC I could be totally off!

Are there other terms I'm forgetting? If so, what about those?

Girlfriend Experience - This basically means you have sex like you may do with a girlfriend. This quite often will include kissing, which most sex workers don’t do (on the mouth) It may also include cuddling and intimacy.

PSE - Porn Star Experience - Like the girlfriend experience but imagine that your girlfriend is a really naughty, nasty porn star haha. This may include coming on a sex workers face, breasts, buttocks etc and is over all energetic and quite naughty.


I copied this from another site but I assumed pretty similar to those. Regardless, what matters is what the Upstate, NY culture views it as!

I think whoever told you pse was bb and anal was trying to get some bb and anal from you, lol

I think whoever told you pse was bb and anal was trying to get some bb and anal from you, lol Originally Posted by prograde

+1

I like a session that starts gfe. Then heats up to pse and then after the panting, a little more gfe.

Maybe they meant bbbj instead of cbj. I forgot where I read it years ago, maybe here or eraps, pse includes specifically bbbj.
I offer pse that doesn't include greek. My pse is energetic, kinky, rough, dirty talk, dt,... fun.

I fully agree he was trying to manipulate me. I'm not sure where he got the idea that I'd be easily manipulated. Even insisted he looked it up and he was correct. I said, "regardless... I do not do that". I'm not sure if he thought this was like a store where a misprint in an ad would hold me liable. Lol!

I still was curious what others thought of n expected from each term though?

Lexy, I fully agree. Mine is very similar. Ive seen others advertise PSE and not include Greek.

I'm fully with you on that Ceremony! That's exactly what I mean by "GFE and PSE mix". I think it's a great mix and works well for me. Most guys who want true GFE still want a something a little more exciting thrown in there too

Read my PM regarding this....

How I see it, GFE includes deep open mouth kissing, cuddling, bbbj, etc. Not mechanical.

Most interpret PSE to mean Greek. I don't offer Greek to 99% of my clients but have an expansive kink-themed menu and I still don't use the acronym PSE when referring to myself because it is easily misconstrued. I rather be open about what I offer and let the gent label it how he chooses.

I've always thought that you can have a GFE with a little PSE sprinkled in.
For me, when you're getting into it (and if you have good chemistry with the provider) you can do a few non traditional positions and throw a few naughty words and dirty talk. For the most part though, GFE is very intimate and affectionate: DFK, hugging, gentle licking and sucking, eventually cumming inside her (covered of course) and cuddling afterwards.

PSE on the other hand is very balls (and boobs) to the wall. There's should be a lot of sucking and licking along with changing positions frequently and lots of action. The lady should be moaning and writhing like she in constant orgasm and eventually both partners should be covered in sweat. And when the guy cums, it always somewhere on her; boobs, pussy, ass, or all over her face.

...that's what I think, anyways, but what do I know?

GFE- Menu should include things a guy typically does with his gf. Such as making out, daty, bbbj. Maybe dato, greek, cim since there are gf's that enjoy that stuff. But at minimum the first 3 things I listed. The big thing is conveying a sense of passion and intimacy. It can't have a detached feeling to it.

PSE- Things like dato, greek, dirty talk, cim, cof should be added. Those are standard in porn. PSE should mimic what you see in a porn scene. More or less straight up sex play without the sense of intimacy. Basically you go off on each other.

GFE is probably the more complicated of the two since it likely requires some level of chemistry to truly pull off. And whether to add stuff like greek or cim. PSE is more straight forward. Just watch porn. It should mimic that.

Obviously there can be some cross over between the two.

GFE = some kind of mental connection real or faked..longer sessions

PSE=totally physical..wham bam thank you ma'am ..usually shorter sessions

Greek and bareback could be included or excluded with either one. And wth is GFE anyway? A gf you've had for a month or one you've had for a decade are 2 different animals.