Is BP in College Station useless?

I started posting on BP in College Station 3 days ago, and I have had over 40 guys contact me via text (I stopped counting at 40), and only 1 met me. All the rest would ask questions, then go silent. Also, one guy set up a appt. with me to meet him at the University Inn and when I got there he asked where I was parked, then told me to park in back, then I didn't hear from him at all. Total NC/NS and a waste of my time and makeup.

Is this normal around here?