I wouldn't appreciate my butt being squeezed first thing when we meet in a civ date. I wouldn't appreciate it in a professional date either.....I'm sure not all providers would feel this way, but you're about to touch a provider's body in a few minutes anyway, why risk a bad start? Why risk making her uncomfortable? Originally Posted by ZorahMattaThanks for sharing. I know you're just one, but I believe more feel that way!