Question for the ladies

My question is, how much time in advance is best for making an appointment. I live in a very rural area in south Alabama. I have to travel to be able to see anyone. I can only visit during week days, daytime only. I have to schedule an off day from work to visit. I don't want to wait until the day I am off to try to schedule. I have tried that before and couldn't find anyone available. I have tried to contact some providers in advance to schedule and when I tell them I am not in the area and will have to travel, they go silent. Any advice you have will be greatly appreciated. PM if you wish. Thanks

Preferably 24 to 48 hours notice to assure you get the exact time you wish, but sometimes even that may not be early enough. And sometimes, kinda rarely, but sometimes, i may have an appointment available same day. That's certainly not the norm though, so i suppose my answer would be the earlier your appointment is scheduled is definitely better.
Hope this helps sweetie.

Preferably 24 to 48 hours notice to assure you get the exact time you wish, but sometimes even that may not be early enough. And sometimes, kinda rarely, but sometimes, i may have an appointment available same day. That's certainly not the norm though, so i suppose my answer would be the earlier your appointment is scheduled is definitely better.
Hope this helps sweetie. Originally Posted by Laney Lixx

That's why I always try to schedule with you as early as I possibly can.

Preferably 24 to 48 hours notice to assure you get the exact time you wish, but sometimes even that may not be early enough. And sometimes, kinda rarely, but sometimes, i may have an appointment available same day. That's certainly not the norm though, so i suppose my answer would be the earlier your appointment is scheduled is definitely better.
Hope this helps sweetie. Originally Posted by Laney Lixx

I have pretty much the same issue. It takes me around an hour, depending on the provider's location, to get there. I always try to set up at least a week ahead if I possibly can. Lucky for me, the ladies I choose to see are pretty good about that.

H2L,

You can also tell by the online personalities of the providers; some are very engaging and straightforward, some don't state a thing in the forums and that might be an indicator and of course you have the ones that have been called out by clients online also.

That all said, it's all about how you two click before you make the trek; it doesn't matter if it's a week out or a same-day. You can eliminate some of the guess work by researching the forums, using PM and linking up directly with the particular provider.

Good luck,
E7

I'd haft to ditto 711. My first date with a provider here was a week out. But I kept her engaged with txt and so on. think of it this way. You want to have a good time and so does she. In any relationship Communication is the key. If you keep in contact she will more than likely be enticed to know you and keep the date where if you set the date and then don't say anything till the day of. Sorry forgot you maybe next time

Thanks everyone, I respect and appreciate your advice. I haven't been using pm on this site much, I guess I should make contact by pm before I text or call. Thanks again.

Of course, every gal has her own preferences. No one can speak for another, and no one way is right or wrong. Every gal is different, just like every client is different.
I personally love guys who book in advance. Over the years, I've had many guys book a month ahead, occasionally even more, if traveling from another state or another country. I have no set rule on this. It could be an hour notice if we have met and trust is established. Good communication and respect for the other person's schedule and time is the key.
I would guess that most girls just don't want to be time-wasted. One guy could be very sincere with his intent to follow up, while another might not. As long as we are respectful of one another, I have no set time limit. Good luck.

My question is, how much time in advance is best for making an appointment. I live in a very rural area in south Alabama. I have to travel to be able to see anyone. I can only visit during week days, daytime only. I have to schedule an off day from work to visit. I don't want to wait until the day I am off to try to schedule. I have tried that before and couldn't find anyone available. I have tried to contact some providers in advance to schedule and when I tell them I am not in the area and will have to travel, they go silent. Any advice you have will be greatly appreciated. PM if you wish. Thanks Originally Posted by Hopetolearn2

I'm a bit of a planner by nature ... the more in advance you can do it imo the better.
Ms. Velvet is pretty spot on also.