You really need to ask ze. This is her sandbox Katie. It may take many months, butt if she don't like it she will have her mod move it. It's a live and let live her way kind of thing.
Best of luck though
Originally Posted by Tsmokies
Katie you may actually qualify. Like Tsmokies said though this is Zes sandbox
This should help you though
ze - Wiktionary
One refers to a person with
ze and hir or zir typically (a) when their gender is unknown, and one wishes to avoid assuming their gender, or (b) when they are neither male nor female in gender, making he and she (and also either/or terms like s/he or (s)he) inappropriate and potentially hurtful.