What amazes me the most on this board is the high level of cruelty that some display towards the very reason they are here. It is a very simple equation in that men are here to meet women and we are both here for sex and women are here for money. Sure, there is a side component on other issues, such as small talk and musing, but the main reason is the opposite sex as we both fulfill the others need. Nevertheless, the main thing that attracts men to this forum is the main thing that some members try to do the most harm to. I cannot put into words how stunned I am at some of the things I hear in ML, how disgustingly unpleasant these people are to the providers on this site. There may well be times for such a hardened attitude; threats to the community such as STD’s, robberies, assaults, theft and cash and dashes would certainly qualify as a reason for one to behave in a harsh manner.
Nevertheless, it seems that a large amount of the cruel behavior stems from insignificant nuisances that irritate a minority of our members to lash out in loathing and defamation. While there are some 400,000 users on this site it seems that the few hate filled individuals on here garner the most attention. It is a sad reality that an ounce of hate weighs more than an ounce of cohabitation and tolerance. I’m not saying there shouldn’t be any rules, as we do need rules to keep things reasonable, but this level of irrationality cannot characterize reasonableness regardless of the subject matter of this board. I hate to state it this tersely, but this boards main problem is male driven drama. I’ve been guilty of it also, and I apologize for this, but I have never tried to ruin a persons living on this board. Call me a white knight, a mandle(BTW, still offering hairy leg fetishes) or whatever, but I opine that my perspective is one of clarity.
My only question is why? Has anyone ever asked some of these jaded individuals why they post like this?