There's nothing wrong in what you're wanting, the issue is to figure it out and try to work within the restrictions.
The first question comes from within you: what is the image you want to project?
As a superb example, look at the photos of Lily that she recently had taken. They project femininity, sensuality, a degree of softness, subtle passion. Her choice of wardrobe emphasized the fact that she is a woman, not a girl, that she is sophisticated, and highly intelligent. Her photos tell a story of boudoir and of classic seduction.
Then look at the photos of Ginger. Her photos tell a different story... a story of youth and energy, of mischeviousness, of a degree of aggression and of laughter and fun. Ginger has mastered the "art of the smirk" and it works very well for her. Ginger comes through as a happy, energetic Southern girl.
Both women are drop-dead gorgeous, and have picked a theme for their photos to show the personality they feel best represents each as a provider.
So the question for you to think about... what personality are you as a provider? Are you into beer and Razorbacks? Are you into conversation and seduction? (Are you into French Maid outfits with your breasts smeared with chocolate cake dough... oops, I digress...
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Sersiously, that's your starting point... you're investing a LOT of time and energy into reinventing yourself on the outside, I suggest you take a few minutes and look at the inside and your provider personality as well. Once you're created that provider role mentally, the rest will flow...