Providers who give references

I am looking for recommendations for providers who are comfortable with giving referrals. I would like to see several of the well established ladies. They usually want a reference, but am having trouble finding those who are willing to do so. I guess maybe they don't want to give up the business? I would be inclined to return to a provider who will give a reference. Any help is appreciated. Thank you.

I really don't understand why a lady wouldn't give references. I'd be happy to give a reference for anyone I have seen. We need to stick together and watch each others back. No one else will!

amen with SweetM..and dittto

I personally don't write references or reviews.

I have explained why before...it is complicated and detailed.

I have been on here for a long time now and have seen several ladies in many other places. I have not seen anyone around here yet, since I recently moved here, trying to get things settled first.

If a provider needs references before they want to spend time with me then I just move to the next provider. I general only ever see the same provider and/or their personal froends, if I can help it anyway.

Anyway...I'll step off of my soapbox now...lol

It does make it hard to get set up with someone reputable, if you dont have references. Then yoi have to roll the dice on someone you are unsure of.

I personally don't write references or reviews.

I have explained why before...it is complicated and detailed.

I have been on here for a long time now and have seen several ladies in many other places. I have not seen anyone around here yet, since I recently moved here, trying to get things settled first.

If a provider needs references before they want to spend time with me then I just move to the next provider. I general only ever see the same provider and/or their personal froends, if I can help it anyway.

Anyway...I'll step off of my soapbox now...lol Originally Posted by looking4justtonight

Agreed, especially since I devote less time to the hobby now than I used to.. If it's someone I really have my sights on I'll try to appease, but it does kinda suck not being able to see some of the more reputable providers after ya save up a bit to do so cuz they want 2 or even 3 "recent" providers, a p411, name, number, employer and blood sample lol. Some providers more, some less... However, i totally understand the reasoning and necessity behind the motion. gotta respect that!

Well when I am at home I am not as newbie friendly as when I tour..thats cause I use my personal private incall and have to be more careful.
I can sometimes use a work reference..you just gotta send me that info...you can be rest assured Im very discrete... ...you can trust a very reputable gal like me to not screw you over

I use to be very newbie friendly but not so much anymore. I hate to be paranoid but I also want to stay safe. I also use my home as my incall and I won't do an outcall. Trust is very important to me and I have built a very good regular clientele. I prefer to be low volume actually.

If a hobbyist doesn't habe current references, I do a meet and greet before hand in a public place. It's an investment into my safety and business.

If you are brand new, I do a newbie dinner date session.

I always give references and try to do so quickly.