Question About Referrals

I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. There is basically two providers on here in Joplin. I have seen one, good time by the way. Some providers want two or more referrals. Do they want Eccie only referrals, or are BP ones ok. I have kind of stayed away from BP so I did not end up with someone sketchy, but I may have to change that. Thanks for the input.

BP girls do not have the verification to give a reference. They're nobody and could be anyone, And there's usually something keeping them from being verified.
Not sure how many providers are in Joplin as I've only lived here about a month. But 1 verified reference is enough for me as long as it's recent.

Some reputable providers have other ways to verify you. You have to go through the process and be honest with them. For my two cents stay off backpage.

Ya I figured it would be best to stay away from them, I have only seen one from BP and she started texting as soon as I walked in and freaked me out. Thanks for your input.

HoustonRiley...that is exceedingly incongruous!

good luck sugar

If ya wanna drive to Springfield,Ill give ya a discount...and ya only need one reference!

Thanks DallasRain, I'm about an hour and 45 minutes from Springfield, but I do need to hit up Bass Pro soon, I will def let you know.

I always enjoy irony of providers who require references.

You can't see a provider without providing a reference, but you can't get a reference without seeing a provider.

Hence, one of the very reasons why I don't share references...lol

Plus I personally require a lunch or dinner meet/greet before any other activities. No, this is not paid regularly hourly rates either, it is simply a man and a woman getting to know one another...However, I do pa for both meals, so there is that...lol

Not to sound lkie an idiot but how do you go about getting a reference.

Not to sound lkie an idiot but how do you go about gettingcontent://media/external/file/3959 a reference. Originally Posted by Ratchi66

I think if you research providers and find a reputable one who toots your horn,then you will do what you have to do to be able to see her

I have a couples gals I know and trust who are newbie friendly and I will tell gents to see them. And then I will gladly see them after that....and sometimes I can use a work reference.

I have a private residence incall so I am a lil more picky about verifications.

Thanks that helps.

I always enjoy irony of providers who require references.

You can't see a provider without providing a reference, but you can't get a reference without seeing a provider.

Hence, one of the very reasons why I don't share references...lol

Plus I personally require a lunch or dinner meet/greet before any other activities. No, this is not paid regularly hourly rates either, it is simply a man and a woman getting to know one another...However, I do pa for both meals, so there is that...lol Originally Posted by looking4justtonight

I don't know who to trust for references, so I prefer meet and greet sessions. Yes you are correct. Meet and Greet is an investment in my business and my clientele. The meal is appreciated. Just don't expect me to eat much. I have to be able to bend in the middle.

Ratchie66...

If that question was directed at me; the answer is simple. I do not give out references, nor do I take them.

This line of business is all based around deception. For your own safety, never believe anything that anybody tells you, unless you know them personally.

This goes double for providers. Protect yourself at all times and by all means necessary remember...you are not doing them a favor by seeing them.

You are paying for a service, like any other service...you are the boss...don't lose control because you are thinking with the wrong head!