Loosing your virginity to a provider?

Good idea?
Bad idea?

I would say go for it. Most cashing-in-the-V-chip stories
are humorously embarrassing. I'd see the positive aspect of
being able to shop for a sweet-natured hottie who can help you
explore in an unhurried way your introduction to sex.

Good luck!

Fooling around with providers is not for beginners. It's really not fair to the beginner. It would be way too easy for the provider to take advantage.

A definate no in my book. The first time should have the anticipation of is it going to happen or not. It should almost happen by accident.

As a provider who has taken 2 virginities from clients who were in their 20's, I will say they were very happy with their decision. Once you get to a certain age, you just want to lose it. You are not sentimental about the issue.

And better to learn (and I do mean LEARN) from a professional instead of picking up bad habits from some random bar girl.

I think if you are going to lose it with a provider, just make sure she is OUTSTANDING. I would read the reviews carefully and make sure she is both hotttt, your physical type and has a sweet easygoing personality. If this is really your first time, you have no idea what is likely to happen(with you) so you need a proven very talented PRO. I would go for the best if it was me and make it very memorable.

don't loose ur virginity to a provider. find a friend and do that. why pay to loose something that for many comes without charge. hit the local clubs, bars, etc....im sure it won't take you long.

^ I don't know if the OP has any social anxiety but if he's asking about giving his virginity to a provider, I'm thinking that might be the case. And trolling clubs and bars (if he hasn't already) to me just smacks of producing anxiety.

But regarding other comments, yes--do your homework well, really consider if this is the way to go, and make sure the woman you meet with is known for being sweet and above-board.

Sugar Beth, I agree as you can read in my post. Make sure the gal is upscale and sweet and very skilled. Many men prefer to have their first time with a skilled provider to lower than anxiety level about pleasing a non-provider or possibly being criticized by the non-provider for some sort of erectile misadventure. Also make sure she knows it is your first time and tell her you are putting your "trust" in her hands, mouth etc etc

A documentary about a virgin who hires a sex worker to school him....
http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/virgin-school/

I lost mine to a provider many many many moons ago. It was a great experience! In what could be a very awkward and embarrassing, she made me comfortable and really handled very well.

Personally, I think its a terrible idea. Totally unrealistic expectations there.

reminds me of tom cruise movie losin it

^ I love the 80's