The hobby can be a pretty scary place for both the ladies & the gents. It's much more complex than just looking through showcases,
messaging a lady you find appealing & setting an appointment. You have to go through a screening process with a majority of ladies. When going through a screening process, you have to give her or her booking agent your name, phone number, email & whatever else information is required to book with her. Sometimes you think this information is going into good hands & you have absolutely nothing to worry about. She's screened you thoroughly,
probably did more digging on you than what you've realized.
But you on the other hand, the most you've done as far as researching the lady you're about to see is read her reviews, look at a couple of her ads & looked at her pictures. You have absolutely NO IDEA who she really is.
Granted, yes, the hobby is built around a fantasy; an illusion of passion. Even the meanest & most nastiest of us providers can come off to be the sweetest most sincere ladies bcd. But an illusion is always just a mask, eventually that mask comes off & you see someone's true colors & what they're really capable of doing once you're either not benefiting them the same way, they become jealous or simply because they're tired of being nice.
The question is... how do you detect a conniving provider? I always encourage gents to look through a lady's posts on any forum she uses for advertising. Pay attention to how she speaks to not only other providers,
but to clients as well. Social media is also a VERY powerful tool. I'm not saying go try to hunt a lady's real world information down, NEVER cross the lines of privacy & discretion especially if you don't want someone to do that to you. But many providers do have Twitter, Instagram, Facebook etc. & that is usually their "comfort zone" to let their true colors shine.
PROVIDERS
I cannot emphasize this enough. I tell every lady I speak to & every lady just getting into this hobby, THIS IS A DOG EAT DOG BUSINESS!!! I've been lucky to come across 3 providers who genuinely like me & I can honestly say will never screw me over, but I've also come across ladies who their only motive to being my "friend" was to find a way to destroy my reputation & "take my clients" (like there isn't enough business to go around, lol). Be cautious who you let your guards down to. I know this is a lonely place sometimes, & sometimes you want an escort friend, but not everyone has your best interests in mind or give a single shit about what you have to lose in life.
I just encourage everyone to be more careful when it comes to their hobbying, business & whom they choose to associate with. DO YOUR SCREENING. Not everything that glitters is gold!!!!
xoxo,
KVD
messaging a lady you find appealing & setting an appointment. You have to go through a screening process with a majority of ladies. When going through a screening process, you have to give her or her booking agent your name, phone number, email & whatever else information is required to book with her. Sometimes you think this information is going into good hands & you have absolutely nothing to worry about. She's screened you thoroughly,
probably did more digging on you than what you've realized.
But you on the other hand, the most you've done as far as researching the lady you're about to see is read her reviews, look at a couple of her ads & looked at her pictures. You have absolutely NO IDEA who she really is.
Granted, yes, the hobby is built around a fantasy; an illusion of passion. Even the meanest & most nastiest of us providers can come off to be the sweetest most sincere ladies bcd. But an illusion is always just a mask, eventually that mask comes off & you see someone's true colors & what they're really capable of doing once you're either not benefiting them the same way, they become jealous or simply because they're tired of being nice.
The question is... how do you detect a conniving provider? I always encourage gents to look through a lady's posts on any forum she uses for advertising. Pay attention to how she speaks to not only other providers,
but to clients as well. Social media is also a VERY powerful tool. I'm not saying go try to hunt a lady's real world information down, NEVER cross the lines of privacy & discretion especially if you don't want someone to do that to you. But many providers do have Twitter, Instagram, Facebook etc. & that is usually their "comfort zone" to let their true colors shine.
PROVIDERS
I cannot emphasize this enough. I tell every lady I speak to & every lady just getting into this hobby, THIS IS A DOG EAT DOG BUSINESS!!! I've been lucky to come across 3 providers who genuinely like me & I can honestly say will never screw me over, but I've also come across ladies who their only motive to being my "friend" was to find a way to destroy my reputation & "take my clients" (like there isn't enough business to go around, lol). Be cautious who you let your guards down to. I know this is a lonely place sometimes, & sometimes you want an escort friend, but not everyone has your best interests in mind or give a single shit about what you have to lose in life.
I just encourage everyone to be more careful when it comes to their hobbying, business & whom they choose to associate with. DO YOUR SCREENING. Not everything that glitters is gold!!!!
xoxo,
KVD
