Guidance

Ok so I'm new just a couple under the belt. Have done a few ISO and gotten some responses. This one provider has responded to them, although arrangements were already made. I finially made a session from this certain provider that has been responding, after contact was made through text she informs me that just by he contacting me through those ISO, that because she wasn't chosen I have standing her up NCNS and and was threaten with blacklisted. Changed my entire schedule for her today and now she is not reaponding to text or anything. I'm even in the area she requested. Is this the way it is or can you all direct me in the right way. The reviews of the provider has a lot of recommendations however all end with they will not return. Any ideas???????
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Heywood's Avatar
If the recommendations all end with "would not return", why you try to go there anyway? Just sayin'.

Some folks have to piss on the electric fence themselves.
Mistake was to announce that you were "booked". That announced you picked someone and it wasn't her.
I would just be careful also screen the girls you are trying to see
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Uh....this was about me. I am not a big fan of drama especially on here. I struggled on whether or not i should respond because its amusing but I feel I need to say something because if I don't he may try this with someone else or someone may think its ok to behave this way.

He is right I told him i would blacklist him if he ncns but then i fell asleep waiting on him for our 4th attempt of meeting after he had NCNS 3 times and was 30 monutes late to our last attempt, but in my defense I am always very prompt and really JDogg....you contacted me three times before this incident and flaked. You failed to mention that.

I finally told you I would see you but if you flaked that time I was blacklisting you. You made your appointment and I fell asleep waiting bc you were 30 minutes late! I have the texts to prove it.

And further where exactly does it say someone will not return to see me? Thats a real d×ck thing to say. I have all but one yes on recommendations. And the no I do have ...that guy canceled his account and disappeared and he had 4 posts total and i was his 1st and only review so his reputation is less tham credible.

Maybe you need to learn to show up. I havent blacklisted you nor do I use that term freely.... but this is my business after all and I have standards I would expect you to have them too when it comes to business. Excuse me for not giving a crap about falling asleep when you had already ncns 3 times then were late and not a little late but 30 minutes late to the 4th. I run on a schedule and I am sorry you did not feel meeting me was important enough to show up.

You said Dallas recommended me and so did Jessica. So maybe just maybe its true that I have a clue and am a good chick with good intentions, like they are. Could it be that you are the one who needs to be a little more apologetic? Because the way u felt the ONE time when i didnt answer you after 3 times of YOU being a NCNS and then 30 min late the 4th time, IS EXACTLY HOW I FELT EVERY ONE OF THE 4 TIMES you decided to flake on me.

So maybe you can just chalk this up to a learning experience bc I tried to see you and accomadate 4 times. I dont know very many providers on this board or anywhere that would give you that many chances. I hate bringing all my dirt out like this in public but you sir, are in the wrong here. It seems to me like maybe you got a taste of your own medicine and didnt like it very much.

I am sorry that you feel wronged but I cant please everyone but I sure won't stop trying. Try taking a look at the situation from both sides before you publicly try to shame someone online especially when you arent giving full disclosure. ]

And after all this....I do apologize for falling asleep. If you decide you still want to try to meet me, I would be open to it, only because you came recommended from Dallas and I feel like things can be salvaged here bc I am not one to hold a grudge.

I have tried to contact you but you did not respond. So balls in your court.

Thank you,
Scarlet