I don't get it....limiting menu until 2nd session. Can any of our ladies explain....

how this is a good business move? I've asked a few ladies who wouldn't provide BBBJ or allow DATY until the 2nd visit and got answers like..."I'll know you better" or "We will be more comfortable with each other" to which I say BS. If you are seeing an ECCIE member, you have a good idea what kind of person we are from our board presence, reviews and references. Not much if anything is going to change along those lines from visit 1 to visit 2. If a lady thinks those policies are a good marketing strategy I would also somewhat respectfully say BS. I think there are more guys that won't see you at all because of those first session limitations than the guys who repeat to get to the more open menu. Am I missing some point ladies?

Hell I will suck your dick..lick your balls..sit 9n your face,ect......and I don't even have to know your name. Lol

Dallas, that is hilarious. Is that an invitation or a challenge?

Sounds like a business tactic to guarantee a second appointment. Not a good business tactic, but one none the less lol.

What it really sounds like is the girl wants to see you first before committing to it. Show up clean and respectful and she will probably do it.

I have seen multiple girls who have bbbj on their menu but only list cbj because they only do it to guys they want to. It's easier to set the expectations low and only do cbj than it is to say she would do bbbj only to not want to do it on you because of grooming etc.

Jesus if thats what the gentleman wants ill give it to him

...f thats what the gentleman wants ill give it to him Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

No, no, no, Nikki... I give it to you!

I think bigryan's take on it is spot-on.... Gives the lady an "out" if the guy doesn't meet her standards once they are "face to face". There have been a couple ladies that have used the "need to know you better" line before letting me do the DATY/Timex thing. Once they meet me, they've lightened up on the rule when they are more comfortable with my intentions...

So like Ryan is trying to explain Mizzou is that you didn't fit her standards...and I believe she probably doesn't care what your thoughts are of her business strategies.
Id say move on if this happened

Buttsex is my line more-or-less.
Sticking your dick in my butt is a no for a 1st date but it's not at all to guarantee a 2nd date. I created that stipulation after being lied to enough by folks saying they were small to average just to see their boat (penis) was too thick for the dock in the back (butthole). And after I'd prepped and skipped at least 2 meals. I don't like missing meals goddamit (*hums "by the way what he say, he can tell I ain't missing no meals"*) lol. More than a few of their ideas of average didn't match mine lol.
Other than buttsex for a 2nd or beyond date I don't limit my "menu" on a 1st date.

Interesting. Did not know this. They do tell you this ahead of time before you make initial appointment?
If we ladies could do our best to give other providers a "heads up" lmao, about any hygiene issues a vent may have, maybe the ladies would feel more comfortable on first visit.
As far as Greek, that will not happen unless I see the size of his "island"first!
Same for role play or S&M type activities
But cmon! Basic menu items like bbbj?! Maybe get naked and let her do 5 min body check..sniff around..lol
I hope these girls put this stuff in their ads and showcases!
Just stick with girls like DallasRain and I. Customer satisfaction is #1. But if you stinky, I will show you the door

Buttsex is my line more-or-less.
Sticking your dick in my butt is a no for a 1st date but it's not at all to guarantee a 2nd date. I created that stipulation after being lied to enough by folks saying they were small to average just to see their boat (penis) was too thick for the dock in the back (butthole). And after I'd prepped and skipped at least 2 meals. I don't like missing meals goddamit (*hums "by the way what he say, he can tell I ain't missing no meals"*) lol. More than a few of their ideas of average didn't match mine lol.
Other than buttsex for a 2nd or beyond date I don't limit my "menu" on a 1st date. Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

Could not resist, lol.

Could not resist, lol.

Originally Posted by Luxie

Lol s'alright with me

Hell I will suck your dick..lick your balls..sit 9n your face,ect......and I don't even have to know your name. Lol Originally Posted by DallasRain

LOLOL!

Hell I will suck your dick..lick your balls..sit 9n your face,ect......and I don't even have to know your name. Lol Originally Posted by DallasRain

CTFU I haven't been given the privilege of meeting you personally just yet but I so love your attitude!!!

Nova I so wanna do you...one day baby

If a gent reads a gals reviews it should keep him "in the know" of what kind of services he should expect...and a hint to her personality.
Not ALWAYS a guarantee.
Every provider has a right to make her own rules just like every gent has a choice to see whatever gal fullfils his needs and wants.
There are so many choices available,so choose wisely!


As for connections with clients....I think I make connections fairly easy....I know my place and what kinda role I play in playtimes....
That helps with comfort levels of both parties.

I dont wanna be your wife,I just wanna suck your dick/ride your pony and have a helluva good time!