Appointments with no notice

KayC_K's Avatar
I am curious if it's just me but it seems like guys responding to ads for a massage assume the residence massage is always made ready like a shop or hotel appearance and therefore their appointments can be accommodated within a few minutes. Even on slow days there is more to do for a massage incall to start than just to be home. How long do men think it should take to prepare for a massage client and how long do other providers make you wait to be seen, provided they answer the first call? I'm stumped why guys think a five minute trip route equates to priority status.
I've had very, very bad luck scheduling with providers ahead of time. The exception has been agencies...but with a provider, I see if she's available within the next hour...if not I call somebody else.

I would absolutely love it, if I could schedule ahead of time - but reality is it rarely works out.
KCQuestor's Avatar
This is why I love the Short Notice thread in the ISO forum. You know who is ready to see you NOW. I really wish KC had a nice walk-in brothel...
love2fishfork's Avatar
Reminds me of a quote I saw in someones office. "Of course I want it today. If I wanted it tomorrow, I would have asked for it tomorrow".
xomissmiab's Avatar
Definitely grinds my gears & some still try come right away when you say you need X amount of time smh
LustyBustyGina38FF's Avatar
what about screening and doing a references check? , this takes time
so guys best to get that done first .. it's hard for me to do right now appt( can if I have seen you before if I have the time or with in 30mins of asking , takes me a good 30m to screen someone and who knows when the refes will get back to you

but I do like last min appt get me hot !
There is the tension. Sometimes it is hard to plan ahead, but I get the flip side...

We just need someone who is ready on a moment's notice to satisfy all our needs ��
MissAnnabell's Avatar
I've had very, very bad luck scheduling with providers ahead of time. The exception has been agencies...but with a provider, I see if she's available within the next hour...if not I call somebody else.

I would absolutely love it, if I could schedule ahead of time - but reality is it rarely works out. Originally Posted by AlbusMilitis
Honestly I've had the same luck with gentleman scheduling in advance and not keeping their appointments so I'm a fan of the short term notice thread also really sucks on a day 2 or 3 people schedule in advance and none of them end up keeping their appointments.
LustyBustyGina38FF's Avatar
to be safe and what not ..
There is the tension. Sometimes it is hard to plan ahead, but I get the flip side...

We just need someone who is ready on a moment's notice to satisfy all our needs �� Originally Posted by sal002
Very fair point.
On the flip side of this. I would says it's equally annoying when you set up your appointment get confirmation on time and depart allowing travel time only to get a text 10 minutes before hand asking if they could push it 30 minutes or an hour, or the ever popular I just need ten more minutes and then dead silence for 30.

I have come to just cancelling when the time gets push more then 10 minutes.
cmore197474's Avatar
maybe only repeat clients who have proven to be reliable and respectful should be given short notice appt. scheduling priviledges. i think if i was a provider, i would give many specials to attract preferred repeat clients.
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
maybe only repeat clients who have proven to be reliable and respectful should be given short notice appt. scheduling priviledges. i think if i was a provider, i would give many specials to attract preferred repeat clients. Originally Posted by cmore197474
It has been my experience that regular trusted clients do get preferred scheduling, broken clocks, dinner dates, etc. IJS.
I feel like I am very easy to be screened. I have a job that makes my schedule change. When I'm ready to play I'm ready to play.

I respect that women have personal lives. I respect that women need time to prepare. But if I'm in the mood to play I'm going to ask for short notice. You are an adult who should be easy to say no if it won't work. I will never complain about someone who isn't free to meet. Now if you ask for my screening info and have me wait knowing you are not free I have a problem with that. If I'm wide open I let the woman know I will work with her schedule. If I say I'm looking within the next couple hours, don't be shitty and ask for information knowing it will not work. It takes a woman less than minute either send a quick reply saying the time won't work. Or just blowing me off completely and I will move on. But not being upfront and wasting an hour or more of my time when you know your out of town, have family over, are at your other job, or whatever is bullshit and is very common for providers.
StaceyMay's Avatar
It is difficult to do last minute appts, unless I've already screened. If planning ahead isn't an option, I do like to offer prescreening for gents who aren't sure when they can play, but they are intrested, this helps me accommodate last minute appointments.
I hate to turn down hard working gents just bc they can't schedule ahead 15- 30 minutes is a good enough heads up for me if your already screened.