I, personally, am not a fan of the 'sloppy' blowjob. The one that leaves spit and drool all over the place. Two reasons with the first being that the amount of wetness makes it difficult for me to achieve maximum hardness. I almost liken it to fucking a very loose pussy. Doesn't feel nearly as good as a tight one. Second reason is the mess it leaves. I prefer a nice slow methodical bbbj where I actually feel the tongue doing it's work on my shaft. Like the one I used to get from my SO before I married her. Damn, I miss those days.
Anyway, just curious if I'm in the norm here. Also curious to hear a lady's perspective on this subject. The majority of bbbj ads/offers reference 'sloppy top' and PSE bbbj's which tends me to believe that most providers prefer it that way, but I'm hoping to be wrong