Hobbyist Screening Providers

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Hey guys,

I thought I would pass this along as it has proven successful for me. I always contact a provider initially by text. I have started texting the following to the provider once the donation has been discussed and I feel we are going to schedule an appointment.

Okay. That's a fair price. I just need to verify your pics are legit. Can you email me a photo of yourself holding a piece of paper w/ today's date written on it?

This simple text has changed the way I do business. One simple step. My last few BP appointments have all been good because I could verify who the actual provider was. In most cases, they were using fake pics but were close in enough in resemblance. Now you can see for yourself in advance. While not 100% always the case, only the providers who have something to hide are the ones who will not agree to this. Hell, even the highly rated providers here on ECCIE use questionable pics that are somewhat old, professionally shot, that no longer resemble their current weight, etc...

Good luck guys and be safe!
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  • Twain
  • 05-11-2011, 03:11 PM
Okay. That's a fair price. I just need to verify your pics are legit. Can you email me a photo of yourself holding a piece of paper w/ today's date written on it? Originally Posted by Three Piece Chicken Dinne

I've tried this on my last few providers and this little image is what they sent me in return:


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I think its a good way to verify the bp girls..
Great idea, but I still don't consider BP ever.
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I dont even mess with it, but it is a good options for those who do. Still a great idea!
If a man asked me to do that, I would consider him a flake, a time waster or a scardey cat. But I can prove who I am, and others can't. I just think thats disrespectful and tacky. If a woman isn't verified or reviewed, then I can see you requesting that. Funny thing is, I've had that request once or twice and I told the fella to get lost, I don't play games. Just from my blow off reaction they suddenly "know I'm the real deal because a fake wouldn't blow anyone off like that." Interesting.
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Interesting indeed. I kind of knew in advance what the provider response would be. I only pass it along because it has been working very well for me. If the provider can't provide that pic - for my comfort level - I move on. Most have cooperated once they find out I didn't want an XXX type pic. Again, not always the case, but it is a good sign something is up if the provider will not provide a pic w/ the date on a sheet of paper. Something doesn't jive if they can post their pic on BP but can't share one with you. Be safe out there guys!
Interesting indeed. I kind of knew in advance what the provider response would be. I only pass it along because it has been working very well for me. If the provider can't provide that pic - for my comfort level - I move on. Most have cooperated once they find out I didn't want an XXX type pic. Again, not always the case, but it is a good sign something is up if the provider will not provide a pic w/ the date on a sheet of paper. Something doesn't jive if they can post their pic on BP but can't share one with you. Be safe out there guys! Originally Posted by Three Piece Chicken Dinne
Sir, I can certianly understand your concerns with a provider on BP. It seems one bad apple (or a few) spoils the tree, so ya gotta do what ya gotta do. But what if the women is verified and more established?? Do you still ask for the photo? Again, when/if someone asks for extras to prove I am who I am, I call time wasting shananigans and move on after expressing such to the fella. For some odd reason, for the life of me I don't know why, they say I must be for real if I'm willing to tell a potential client to take a hike. I don't know how one could come to that conclusion, but it is what it is. Unfortunitely, once you piss me off the energy between us is already bad and I don't like to start things off on a bad foot. So I'm not interested at that point. Shananigans, I swear
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But what if the women is verified and more established?? Do you still ask for the photo? Originally Posted by incognito isis
Verified is no longer enough for me. Even the p411 gals have outdated and deceiving pics. I actually got this idea by asking an "established" eccie girl to send a pic w/ the current date on it. She did. She didn't look like her polished pics but I knew what to expect. That was a good appointment.

Again, when/if someone asks for extras to prove I am who I am, I call time wasting shananigans and move on after expressing such to the fella. For some odd reason, for the life of me I don't know why, they say I must be for real if I'm willing to tell a potential client to take a hike. I don't know how one could come to that conclusion, but it is what it is. Originally Posted by incognito isis
I am happy that has worked out for you. I can't explain why they reacted that way either. I don't know where you operate but perhaps its the market you are in. I have no choice but to do this with the amount of BP fakes we get here. I don't hate BP however. I have had more success with it than misses. The misses were locals for the most part and not traveling providers. Everyone shits on BP but even the "established" eccie girls use BP when they are in town. This is just a way for me to make sure I am meeting the person from the ad. That they are not using fake pics. That they are not using pics from when they were 60 lbs thinner. So far so good (for me).

Stay safe out there guys!
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Interesting indeed. I kind of knew in advance what the provider response would be. I only pass it along because it has been working very well for me. If the provider can't provide that pic - for my comfort level - I move on.


(Snip) Originally Posted by Three Piece Chicken Dinne
Thanks for the Idea. I will remember it, and put it to use.

Follow the Golden Rule.... (not the one from church)
"He Who Has The Gold ... Rules"
Verified is no longer enough for me. Even the p411 gals have outdated and deceiving pics. I actually got this idea by asking an "established" eccie girl to send a pic w/ the current date on it. She did. She didn't look like her polished pics but I knew what to expect. That was a good appointment.



I am happy that has worked out for you. I can't explain why they reacted that way either. I don't know where you operate but perhaps its the market you are in. I have no choice but to do this with the amount of BP fakes we get here. I don't hate BP however. I have had more success with it than misses. The misses were locals for the most part and not traveling providers. Everyone shits on BP but even the "established" eccie girls use BP when they are in town. This is just a way for me to make sure I am meeting the person from the ad. That they are not using fake pics. That they are not using pics from when they were 60 lbs thinner. So far so good (for me).

Stay safe out there guys! Originally Posted by Three Piece Chicken Dinne
Sir, you are right. Everyone shits on BP but they still use it so it must be good for something. I must admit, when things get slow I use it, you just have to be careful and screen. Asking for an additional photo is your method of screening and I'm glad it works for you. Now that you've explained where your coming from, I will be more understanding towards the fella who asks for a pic with me holding up a paper. You brought up an interesting subject when you mentioned glossy, professional pics. Seeing some of these lovely photos makes me think the women are hiding their true essence. Personally I take my own photos with my own digital camera. It might not look as sophisticated as "professional" photos, but I've had men tell me they prefer home made pics vs. professionally taken ones. I can honestly see their point.
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This new policy of mine has come in handy. You be the judge for yourself. Here is the BP link to an ad I was interested in.

http://elpaso.backpage.com/FemaleEsc...ide-23/3316666

Compare the pic in the ad to the image attached that she sent me. Close but no cigar. I passed.
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  • Twain
  • 05-13-2011, 11:44 AM
That's funny .... I followed your advice and asked for a pic from the same girl and she answered that she didn't have one.

In fact I have never received a pic from any of them.

I guess I'll have to keep trying.
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I am sure a lot of the BP girls are going to say no. Simply because they are using fake pics. Initially, it may seem like a flaw in my system but it is actually the desired result. If they are using fakes they are not going to agree to send you a pic. I didn't make an appointment with her after I received that pic. To be honest, that is probably the last time she sends one out because she probably perceived it as costing her a booking.
I asked this girl for pics by text and said her camera doesn't work. Looks too good to be true..
http://amarillo.backpage.com/FemaleE...ade-18/3318940