I am sorry Aztec, I work alot too besides providing, it does seem hard working so much but Knowing I have bills covered is worth it, and I send money to my mom and one of my college kids ,and pretty soon another,when she starts ,I feel good about doing it. So I guess I dont mind I will see one day what its like to either not work too much or to just enjoy what I make,as in no kids needing me for funds.