What kind of person does your posting style and content depict you to be?
Be who you want to be. Just be prepared to own it and don't be surprised that some people will want to believe it is how you are in real life.
Here I am constantly thought of as a misogynist. I'm supposedly an asshole that hates women in general and especially hates whores.
There is no one that has met me and been around me much in person that can state that to be true without lies. I have always felt the need to speak my mind and to get others to consider the darker sides of the hobby they participate in. Needless to say, there are many that don't like seeing some of themselves in a real light.
I have plenty of friends from the hobby, male and female, that know a different side of me.
But for those that want to believe the worst based on opinions and information that makes them uncomfortable, I am OK with your decision to believe it.
Others need to consider this.
If a guy is an "in your face" angry / hostile poster" that wants to throw down with any and everyone that disagrees with him or threatens his masculinity he builds a persona of that for himself. True or not.
If he is going to verbally attack, trash any and every woman that takes a position opposite of his or states they want nothing to do with him because of his attitude he adds another layer to that persona.
If he is going to become agitated and animated displaying hostility whenever the subject is brought up if he is around other people that leads to others warning people "Man.. this guy wants to hurt you"..... It adds another layer to it all.
So imagine now that this guy finds himself in a session..... pounding away on a chick and starts to try to coax her into giving up some service not on her menu.... she resists... he becomes more agitated and louder...... she resists...... he loses it cursing and asking what the fuck is wrong with her and she becomes scared and submissive as he is physically stronger than her and his reputation preceded him.... he positions himself to take what he wants and she remains silent.....
Afterwards, when he is gone and she confronts him by text...... his first response is to tell her he knows she loved it and how he's going to do so much good for her business writing the tale as a review.... she argues that she didn't want it, told him No more than once and felt forced/intimidated, fearful for what would happen to her and he loses it and the same type of texts and attitude is displayed in those texts as that which he has posted on the board...... The same threats are made that have been posted as well as heard......
What is easier for you to believe? His behavior matched perfectly to what everyone else has seen in threads, PMs, texts and in person..... Do you give credence to her story?
Most would..... I tend to not believe what someone tells me if I have no prior relationship with them.....
So..... A month later.... a different woman.... an almost identical story...... Guy loses it during a session because she does not want to perform a certain service and scares the shit out of her..... She never says Yes..... But eventually shuts down and stops resisting.....
Were they both raped? They started saying NO and resisting but upon becoming fearful or feeling intimidated they reach a point and shut down and suffered in silence....
Was that consent?
We all have our opinions.... That's not really the point here....
Many of us have read the same shit here.....
If a woman came to you and told you she met Whispers and he was a misogynistic asshole and treated her like shit would you believe her?
I certainly could not argue that you would not have the right to believe so nor could I claim to not understand why people chose to believe it.
So for those with other board personas..... You shouldn't be surprised at what people choose to believe.....
If you are going to portray yourself as an angry, testosterone driven ass pillager that will disrespect any woman that states she would not want to see you with vulgarity and threats chosen to intimidate........ Don't be surprised when a girl says you became agitated trying to get her to give up anal with her resistance and scared her to the point she lays there and afterwards claims/feels she was raped..... Be less surprised that others find it easy to believe.....
I'm OK with the misconceptions some have about me because of the persona I choose to post with. It does not bother me that many want to believe that I am a misogynist. I certainly made that bed.....
I can't say I understand the mentality in place that would lead a guy to create a persona so vile that others can easily believe he raped someone..... But own it... You created that image of yourself....